Ok, Ladies especially I need your advice, please be honest. I have made a friendship with a co worker we both?

work in a fed prison. Well she is on light duty and is working in the computer lab so I go up and see her when im off work. well yesterday (thur) we were joking around, I forgot what we were joking about, and she stuck out her tongue so I jokingly said her tongue was petite. well she said ';but I am a great kisser'; I didnt know how to respond to her because I have so much respect for her. (She is married and really going thru with her husband she is seriously looking at divorce she has confided in me how bad it is. He dont abuse or nothing but they are basically two seperate people who only have a kid together and she is only staying to support herself and her son.) Well I dont know how to take it. well she emailed me today and asked if i was going to stop by today again. is she just bored being alone up there cause she is very sweet and talks with people. but I really have a great time around her. She always wants me to stick around and talk not just pop in and say hi and leave. well?Ok, Ladies especially I need your advice, please be honest. I have made a friendship with a co worker we both?
suggest that unless you wish to be dragged into a messy divorce you stay nice but distant.............let her finish her business with her husband first and then you can re asses the situation.





regards and yes I do think she is coming onto you BUT if you was her hubby would you want that to be happening to you?Ok, Ladies especially I need your advice, please be honest. I have made a friendship with a co worker we both?
Easy now boy! S l o w w a y d o w n !





Sounds like the little lady is getting a little, mmmm I will use ';lonely'; here, just to be nice.





If you want to continue to feel good about yourself, just stay on a platonic level with her. DO NOT let her rope you in to some little game she wants to play while she is trying to irritate the begeebers out of her husband.





Some people do this kind of thing all the time. They love the DRAMA of it all. Then when you get all wrapped up in her sticky little situation, she decides that ';the kiddies need their daddy, and she just can't leave him';. You'll end up with a broken heart, egg on your face, and huge dose of lowered self esteem.





Again, guy, slow down, way down, back up, and hey, you might even want to turn and RUN as fast as you can in the opposite direction. I am sorry to say it, however, she sounds like a BAD kind of TROUBLE to me.
Don't go there. You could ruin a family. Hard, but we must consider consequences, before we take action. If she comes on to you, explain very gently, that you don't want to get into a relationship that is complicated, as she is married, and has a responsibility to her husband and children. But be gentle.





Then go out and find a great girl and put her picture up in your office. Don't stick around the office longer than is necessary.





A boy I knew was in love with my daughter, but the girls at the office would not leave him alone, so he put a gorgeous photos of her up. Everyone stayed away.