i am married my wife is 5 months and we found out it is going to be a girl just coming on her for some advise and just to learn things i should knowI am going to be a father for the first time what should i expect or any advice?
First off a huge Congratulations!! Here is my list......
1 - Your lives are about to change forever.
2 - Let your instincts do the talking (yes, fathers do get those!). You can dream up 100 sitituations in your head about how you will react to certain problems. Believe me, you will know what to do when things happen.
3 - Be involved!!! Change that diaper. Think about your poor little one having to sit in her own mess, and change her! My husband was and is, VERY hands on with our daughter. I will grow to be an old woman and always love and respect him for the father he is.
4 - Enjoy your little girl. Allow yourself to get lost in the greatest love on earth! Little girls have the habit of wrapping their fathers around their little pinkies!
5 - Most important... Don't have more kids than you can handle. Think of the quality of your childs life. What do you want to show her of the world? We topped out at 1 child. We do everything from movies, park, museums. She's been traveling since she's been born! Been to Disney World 3 times, Disneyland countless times. We took her on an international vacation when she was only 10 months old. Show her the world, then teach her how to get it.I am going to be a father for the first time what should i expect or any advice?
Better get used to your wallet being flat out broke cause thats what I do to my dad. Lol. Expect maybe a bit of control on the girls side of the family as there is more. I have 1 sister and my mum and one of the way, so my dad is kinda stuck, and hes kinda paying for my boarding school fees, 20k a year. And Im going on Canberra trip in yr 10. So prepare you may have a drama queen on the way.
NO SLEEP
NO MONEY
NO SEX
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