Ok. This is long, complicated and boring, but any advice would be great! Thanks

Ok I am bisexual and i have really liked this girl for about 6 months now. She don't know I am bisexual. We started talking like friends a while back then i realised i actually really liked her and we became proper close, we would always flirt loads, talk loads and see eachother lots and she would do and say things that would really give me the impression she liked me. Then i asked her if she wanted to do something one day before I went away (holiday) and she was like yeah sure pizza hut or something? Is sarah going? .. (another girl) and i said up to you i dont mind, and she said yeah otherwise we will look like we are ona lesbian date, and when i said sarah couldnt go, she wouldnt go out! - i dont understand that at all and it upset me alot.


so i text her saying look seriously are you insecure about yourself or something? - not very sensative i know but i was upset.


since then she has blocked me online, we dont speak to eachother when we see eachother - why would she react this way?


I went away and i thought excellent im over her, but then we havent even talked and i still realise i like her! its crazy no matter what i do i cant move on!


I decided to text her cos i heard she was ill, so i said hiya i know im not your favorite person atm but heard you were ill, hope you feel betetr soon. She replied like what im fine with you! how are you etc


I dont understand how she can have such a slit personality, blocking me, ignoring me - then acting like its all good?


so i said look i know you have blocked me cos you are online on a old account you tell me to contact you when im home so we can go out and you ignore me. aparently she hasnt been online in a month - bullsh*t. So i said look its all since that text so i know somethings up, if you need to talk to anyone, you know where im here. No text back or anything.





I dont know what to do, I have had a incering before i even knew her properly she could be gay or bi. But I dont know what I should do, im thinking i may aswel tell her i am bisexual, see if it reasures her or something.


I just think theres too much there for me to just forget it. Maybe im being naive.


any advice, suggestions? Thanks for reading this long long long silly thing! :) Ok. This is long, complicated and boring, but any advice would be great! Thanks
I think she either really wants to be just Friends with you but is getting scared off, or else she does have feelings for you but doesnt want to admit it to herself so is trying to avoid you. I think the best thing to do would be to have a talk with her pretending that you are scared because you have feelings for girls, but dont mention her, and if she likes you she will say she has the same problem, but if she doesnt just try to move on. Difficult situation tho!


Gudluk!Ok. This is long, complicated and boring, but any advice would be great! Thanks
to be honest this question leaves me clueless, cause like it very possible that she not bisexual, and i would like to ask you this why are you a bisexual?
Maybe she isn't, maybe u got the wrong impression. I think you should just forget about her and find a boyfriend
Your Friend probably just got a bit scared that's all, lots of people are homophobic especially if it comes as a shock, I am bi and my friend was shocked when I first told her and it was the same situation that you are in, but everything ok now and we accept each others differences I must admit I was pretty scared when I told her which is probably how you feel now. I'm 14, How old are you?


Hope it helps x
This girl is being immature. I'd leave her and find someone else if i were you. I'm gay. The whole school knows due to certain reasons that i'd rather not elaborate on.


Anyway. I have friends both male and female. When i want to meet up with them but only one of my male friends can go and no female friends, he still meets up with me because he cares more about me than what other people think of him. Your 'friend' obviously cares more about her image than you. Horrible but true.


She doesn't deserve you. For your own well being, find someone else.
I am not sure what you would accomplish by telling her that you are bi- sexual. Seems pretty cut and dry that she didn't want to be in a situation where it may appear to others that she was on a date with you, this leads me to think that she already is aware on some level as to your orientation. Sounds like she blocked you and then didn't have the nerve to defend her decision when asked directly about it. Not sure why you would have a hard time getting over someone that has no interest and is possibly not the most sensitive regarding your sexual orientation. Good luck!








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I think the reason that she is now nice to you is probably because she is fine with you already and therefore want to contact you again.





If you ask me whether she is a lesbian I will doubt so but did she had a bf before? The fact that she blocked and ignore you already shown that she is afraid of you when she realized that both of you are too good of a friend that almost cross over the boundary to become lesbian thus she want to back off a bit to lower down the relationship to good friend status and not lesbians.





Maybe I'm wrong but if you would really like to know whether she is lesbian then you might want to ask her directly. My advice is never assume a person is gay/lesbian until they personally told you that they are one.
How old are you?





Im 14 and im Bi / Lesbian. But i know how you feel. people made up rumours that i was gay i always denied it - But it turns out its true! but now people wont go out alone with me. and you kind of feel betrayed in a way because they cant trust you. but i think the best thing you can do is tell her the truth. If she doesnt like you for who you are, she isnt worth your heart or your friendship - You never know! she might fall into your arms and everything will be ok!





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