I need advice on what to do with my exgirlfriend that just refuses to be with me but...?

She calls all the time, wants to hang out. She tells me that she is not ready to be with me again, and that if she were, she would hurt me again (she broke up the first time). She won't do anything to show me she has feelings for me, just words. I tried to kiss her, she turned her head. This is just one example. But she calls me when she is down and everything. She has a history of depression, bullimia, and other problems but I don't want to be used because of this. What should I do? Should I tell her ';I can't wait for you so I am going to date others but in the future if you want to get together, and I am single, than maybe we can work things out, but right now I don't want to talk as much';. What should I do? I don't want to be around all the time so that she thinks she doesn't have to do much to have me around when she needs me.I need advice on what to do with my exgirlfriend that just refuses to be with me but...?
Honey, life is too short for you to have to carry around her baggage. She has to get herself straight before she can bring anyone else into her life. Right now she is very needy and wants a friend. You want more and have every right to it. Cut your ties with this lady and move on in life. Find someone you can plan a future with and be happy with.I need advice on what to do with my exgirlfriend that just refuses to be with me but...?
Shes going back to you because she has no one to turn to except you, because you know her better than anyone else. If she were to meet someone else, then that person would have to sit and understand her situation which takes time and im pretty sure they dont want to sit through it. You took her in after she broke your heart, you let her cry on your shoulder, you let her take time outta your own hands to deal with her problems..but why? you feel bad because her past historys o fdepression, bulimia and what not, right? but you can't do that. There comes a time in her life when she needs to grow up and realize that YOU can't always be there for her, you can't tell her that your gonna be single when she decides to take you back, you dont know the future so you never know if another girl is gonna cross your way. It takes time and space, and thats what you need to give her, its okay not to answer her calls, its okay to give yourself time and hang out with your boys, its okay to tell her no. Maybe one day she'll realize that she needs to quit acting stubborn and quit relying on someone.
this girl is trying to have her cake and eat it too. she wants to keep you interested so if her new relationship choice does not work out then she will still have a man. dump her quick. she is selfish and controlling. tell her that maybe you can be friends in a year or two but not now. let her know you do intend to date other women.
She still considers you a friend, someone she trusts. But you're right, it's time for you to move on. If you have caller ID, don't answer her calls. Or tell her directly: please stop calling me so much, we aren't dating anymore. You don't need to tell her you might date her in the future, and you certainly don't need to tell her that you want to date other people. She has no control over your life.