ok, I started dating this gorgeous girl on june 1st of this year, about a week later she told me she was pregnant. within this week I caught her getting flirtatious texts from other guys. I have asked her over and over again ';if its not mine, just come clean its ok';(she still says its mine) now we have been together for close to 2 and a half months and she kind of looks four months pregnant... what should i do? i like her quite a bit and our relationship is suffering when i question her since she says its mineMy Gf might not be pregnant by me??? advice?
well she wouldn't know she was pregnant after a week..so if you were only with her for a week and she was already pregnant then there is no possibility it could be yours. The earliest she could find out is 14 days after she conceived.
Also, if you are one of them guys thats in denial and still thinks it could be yours, ask to go to a dr. appointment with her, they should be measuring her belly everytime and give her a due date, ask questions yourself, that way she can't lie.My Gf might not be pregnant by me??? advice?
Sorry to tell you this but there is no way that you meet her and she told you she was pregnant 1 week later by you. It would have taken at least 3 to 4 weeks for her to know. It sounds like to me that the baby isn't yours but that doesn't mean you can't be there for her nad the baby. Remember it takes more to be a daddy then sperm.
it is not yours, sorry to be so blunt. But there is no way to find out you are pregnant a week after you concieved so unless you two were having sex before you started dating then there is no way it is yours. walk away now, she knows it is not yours she most likly just thinks that you will be a better father then the man who actually is the father
Like everyone else said I think it's impossible for you to be the father. She wouldn't know that soon she got pregnant.
If she is lying to you this early in the relationship I doubt it's destined to get very far. This may be a sign to get out now.
If it really is your baby she can contact you and get a paternity test. I have a feeling she won't because she may know who the father is.
Do what is best for you! I wish you the best of luck.
The baby is not your! There's no way is your because you guys only been together for one week and she already told you that she was pregnant! you should asked her how many months is she and told her that you want an DNA test to prove that is your or not if she keep saying that the baby is your. Good luck.
she would not be able to tell after one week... sometimes you have to be closer to 5 weeks before you know for sure. I don't think it's right what she is doing.
I am 17 and found myself pg with the boy I lost my virginity to. We started sleeping together April 2nd and I was not able to get a positive result until May 2.
Its no way that baby is yours.. 1 week is way to soon for a positive test.. If you feel different then the only thing to do is request a dna test when the child is born. Also, go with her to the dr to know excatly how far along she is so you do the math. she shouln't even be no where near 3 months. she should be about 6-7 weeks tops.
Good luck
you need to get the baby tested but I don't think ti's yours because it takes at least 10 days to get a positive pregnancy test. This situation sounds impossible. I can't tell you what to do but do the math, What is her due date?
It's not yours.
after one week of dating she would not know that she was then pregnant..it was way too soon.
I would dump her lying butt.
it's not your kid! Quit that lying tr@mp now befor you catch something!
Well, go to a doctors appointment with her
Ask HIM when the baby was conceived and how far along she is
Do the math and you will know
Plus if you really are the father, she should be more then happy for you to accompany her to the appointment where you can hear the heart beat and see the baby etc.
But, if you were with her for only a week and she told you she was pregnant, I can almost guarantee you its not yours.
You dont get a positive pregnancy result until your at least 3 weeks.
Pregnancy starts at implantation, not conception. It can take that fertilized egg up to a week to even attach to the uterine wall.
1 week is not nearly enough time.
If your still worried, get her to take a paternity test after the baby is born. This way, even if she claims its yours, you do not have to be a father or pay child support for a baby that's not yours.
trust your instinct. thats the one thing that willnever lie to you. i know and heard of girls doing this. so, my advice to you, be there for her, when the baby comes, simply get a dna test. tell her, not ask her. you will want a dna test. if she gets mad, shes childish and immature and obviously is hiding something. she has to be understanding about the situation. it involves a baby. she should agree. if she disagrees and doesnt approve, do not sign any papers when the baby is born, you will not legaly be responsible until proven other wise. if you really care for her, you deserve to be cared for in return. if she is lieing, well, you know the rest. if you feel this baby isnt yours, make sure, before making any rash decisions. she should, in my opinion be ok with agreeing with a paternity test. if i knew in my heart that my boyfriend whom i barely been with was the father, i would agree to it, to help calm is worried mind and try to work on 'us'. gudluck to u.
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