Let your yes mean yes....let your no mean no...If you could give someone you love and respect one piece of advice , what would it be?
i have lots,
Blood is thicker than water
Treat people how you want to be treated
There is always light at the end of the tunnel
When you try to control something so much, it ends up controlling youIf you could give someone you love and respect one piece of advice , what would it be?
when i moved out of my mums house, her advice was, dont eat anything grey! including cigarets! makes sence but still quite daft! i was expecting a big long life speech!
Walk tall throughout your life, with your feet on the ground and your head in the clouds.
keep your integrity.
Keep God first in every area of your life; never lose Faith, no matter what may happen.
Dump him before he does it you again!!
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
What is important for you when reading someones story advice.?
Hey there (:
I love writing alot but i wouldn't say i was as good as others and i'm needing some advice and help on a few things so i'm wondering what is important in a story and how can i describe it well and how to be original ?
thank you xWhat is important for you when reading someones story advice.?
The first step to becoming a good writer is practice. It seems like a cliche, but practice really does help. If you continually write about something, your work will begin to improve. When you are writing, remember always to think about your five senses. What does your character see? Hear? Smell? Feel? Taste? Make sure you create imagery in your story (Imagery is appealing to the five senses). Another thing that I find very important is grammar. Many people overlook the grammar aspect of writing, but I find it very imperative. Make sure you learn to conduct good sentences, and to practice throughout your day. For example, when you were asking this question, you're sentences we're constructed well. Yes, I'm aware that you weren't trying. But it's good practice to always use good grammar. Instead of what you said, you could have said something along the lines of:
Hello, everyone. I love writing immensely, but I don't think that I'm as good as I could be. I'm looking for some advice on how to become a good writer. What's important while writing a story? ow can I describe things well, and how can I be original?
See? Doesn't that read so much easier? Make sure you practice constructing good sentences. As for how to be original, you need to find your own ideas for stories. Many people write about something that has been done a thousand times over. For example, please don't do another vampire story. We have enough of those at the moment.
My biggest suggestion is to set aside about an hour each day of writing. Write about anything at all; just get the juices flowing. Sooner or later, it will turn in to something. I also suggest that you read a lot. Reading helps you to become a better writer.
I hope that this helps! Best of luck!cartridge scars
I love writing alot but i wouldn't say i was as good as others and i'm needing some advice and help on a few things so i'm wondering what is important in a story and how can i describe it well and how to be original ?
thank you xWhat is important for you when reading someones story advice.?
The first step to becoming a good writer is practice. It seems like a cliche, but practice really does help. If you continually write about something, your work will begin to improve. When you are writing, remember always to think about your five senses. What does your character see? Hear? Smell? Feel? Taste? Make sure you create imagery in your story (Imagery is appealing to the five senses). Another thing that I find very important is grammar. Many people overlook the grammar aspect of writing, but I find it very imperative. Make sure you learn to conduct good sentences, and to practice throughout your day. For example, when you were asking this question, you're sentences we're constructed well. Yes, I'm aware that you weren't trying. But it's good practice to always use good grammar. Instead of what you said, you could have said something along the lines of:
Hello, everyone. I love writing immensely, but I don't think that I'm as good as I could be. I'm looking for some advice on how to become a good writer. What's important while writing a story? ow can I describe things well, and how can I be original?
See? Doesn't that read so much easier? Make sure you practice constructing good sentences. As for how to be original, you need to find your own ideas for stories. Many people write about something that has been done a thousand times over. For example, please don't do another vampire story. We have enough of those at the moment.
My biggest suggestion is to set aside about an hour each day of writing. Write about anything at all; just get the juices flowing. Sooner or later, it will turn in to something. I also suggest that you read a lot. Reading helps you to become a better writer.
I hope that this helps! Best of luck!
Are there any animal psychologists out there with some advice about my violent cat?
I have a 4 year old neutered male cat, I rescued him when he was 1, he had been living wild. He is a wonderful, playful cat, but he will stalk me about the house, run up and bite me on the leg or foot. I tell him, loudly no! bad cat! but he keeps doing it...any suggestions?Are there any animal psychologists out there with some advice about my violent cat?
He is playing cat and mouse you are the mouse. My brother's cat did that but stopped when they got a dog she didn't like. Now another cat moved in and the first lives under the bed.Are there any animal psychologists out there with some advice about my violent cat?
As other posters said, your cat is having fun, and he's not going to stop doing it unless he no longer is rewarded.
If you can predict when he does, it will go a lot faster than if react after he attacks. You could put him in a collar with a bell on it, it will be annoying for a few days, but it will let you know where he is at all times.
So if you can predict when he will attack, Preempt him. When you hear him charge, turn around and charge back. Or quickly scoop him up and hold him close to you, when he starts struggling, hold for a few seconds more and put him down. You don't want to scare him, just annoy him so he stops. Don't do anything that you think will scare him. You can even divert him with a toy thrown away from you. Just remember, timing is everything, and you need to stop him before he gets rewarded (the satisfaction of jumping on you) or else this won't work. You also need to be consistant and stop him every single time. Let him through once, and it reinforces that he needs to try harder to get you.
If you can't predict when he will charge, you will have to punish after the fact. Immediately after he gets you, pick him up and hold him close for a few seconds, enough so he gets annoyed, or you can do kitty time out, where he gets locked in a room for a few minutes. It will take much longer to train. I wouldn't yell, it will just encourage him, but going this route means it takes a lot longer for your cat to understand the punishment is linked to pouncing on you.
Good luck!
It definitely sounds like your cat is playing with you. Have you tried providing toys that you cat can hunt and attack instead of you? Have you tried using water spray bottles before an attack? If you can identify when your cat is about to attack you use a sprits of water immediately at the first sign of attack. If you can catch your cat before it attacks it could be very effective. While enforcing the spray bottle for negative behavior make sure to also reward your cat when it is being calm and relaxing with you to reinforce that this type of behavior is good.
Back on the topic of toys, you may want to invest in different types of toys so that your cat might attack the toys over you. Toys that move, hand or bounce around are good. My cat really likes to attack smaller catnip toys that I got from Petsmart. He鈥檚 also in love with attacking a shiny gold gift ribbon.
Also, I鈥檓 not sure who you live with, but you鈥檒l want to make sure that no one is play fighting with your cat. Play fighting with a cat reinforces that the aggressive behavior is OK and is actually doing more harm than good 鈥?especially when you鈥檙e trying to teach that it is not OK.
I have a cat from the local Animal Control. She had been there for months, evidently because of running up to people and scratching the back of the knee. She always wants something when she does this. Hiss at him when he stalks.
Make sure you play with him often when he isn't stalking. I think this a cat with lots of prey drive/playfulness. It is a social animal that has bad manners.
Our attack kitty would attack the dogs and go for the eyes or the boys' groins. Very bad, mean girl! She almost never attacks anymore unless we haven't gotten her more food and she has asked politely.
Be consistent and give it time!
well im not a psychologist but ill still try to help you out! :) If you see him stalking you, turn around and say no very sternly, dont yell though. If he bites you, spray him with a little bottle when ever he does this. Eventually he will learn that he gets sprayed when he bites.
He's just trying to play. Mine does the same. I don't mind it.
I'm not for physical reprimanding or ';the water spraying'; technique so...
I recommend wearing thick pants.
Or when you see him stalking...run up to him before he does to you. He'll most likely run away.
cry out REALLY loud in pain, even if it doesn't hurt.Your cat is trying to play so I would play with him more often, 15 mins at a time at least.
It definitely sounds like he is playing with you. Most cats are reluctant to stop a behavior that they enjoy, especially one that they have been doing for a long time. Have you tried carrying a spray bottle of water and squirting him when he does this? It doesn't hurt them but most cats hate it. If you are consistent with him he may stop. If you shake your foot a lot he will probably just think you are playing back. Most animals think that quick movement is either threatening or playful so maybe when he's attacking you stay still. Or if you see him stalking you you could stop moving around for a while until he gets bored or go sit down somewhere. Most cats that I have had experience with have had no concept of the word NO and bad cat meant nothing to them. Try hissing loudly with your tongue just to get his attention. If it is an obsessive thing a loud noise a lot of times will break his concentration and shift his focus. Good luck! Hope something there helps
Make sure you play with him for at least 15 minutes per day. Otherwise they will get bored and make up games of their own, (like this).
Don't assume automatically that cats that bite are vicious creatures. You must distinct between play-biting and real aggressive biting. Kittens for example like to play, and sometimes pretty rough. They use their claws and teeth to wrestle with each other. This is how they learn to hunt and catch prey, so that鈥檚 normal. They usually go unharmed because their fur protects them from serious wounds. However, human skin is a different story, but kittens don't know that.
When you stroke your kitten it can take it as an invitation to play and clasps your hand and bites. That might hurt a little but is generally nothing to worry about. Some cats make a sport out of leg biting. They jump up on you and dig in. Research has show that it鈥檚 a sort of unsatisfied hunting and prey instinct and lack of activity.
- Teach your kitten from an early age that hands are for feeding and stroking and NOT a toy!
- Avoid playing with your bare hands
- Use a fluffy toy or a feather on a string instead
- In case it grabs your hand, draw it away slowly and do NOT punish your cat, it will understand it as an attack and make matters worse.
- Anytime your cat scratches or bites you, make a loud yowling sound to show that you have been hurt, (even if you really aren鈥檛 hurt). Your cat will understand.
- If your cat is a ';leg biter'; try to spend more time playing with it and redirect its attack to a toy. Leave toys lying around so that he can also amuse itself, particular when you keep your cat indoors. Cats need a wide variety of toys to keep them interested, so don鈥檛 expect a couple toy mice to help.
He is playing cat and mouse you are the mouse. My brother's cat did that but stopped when they got a dog she didn't like. Now another cat moved in and the first lives under the bed.Are there any animal psychologists out there with some advice about my violent cat?
As other posters said, your cat is having fun, and he's not going to stop doing it unless he no longer is rewarded.
If you can predict when he does, it will go a lot faster than if react after he attacks. You could put him in a collar with a bell on it, it will be annoying for a few days, but it will let you know where he is at all times.
So if you can predict when he will attack, Preempt him. When you hear him charge, turn around and charge back. Or quickly scoop him up and hold him close to you, when he starts struggling, hold for a few seconds more and put him down. You don't want to scare him, just annoy him so he stops. Don't do anything that you think will scare him. You can even divert him with a toy thrown away from you. Just remember, timing is everything, and you need to stop him before he gets rewarded (the satisfaction of jumping on you) or else this won't work. You also need to be consistant and stop him every single time. Let him through once, and it reinforces that he needs to try harder to get you.
If you can't predict when he will charge, you will have to punish after the fact. Immediately after he gets you, pick him up and hold him close for a few seconds, enough so he gets annoyed, or you can do kitty time out, where he gets locked in a room for a few minutes. It will take much longer to train. I wouldn't yell, it will just encourage him, but going this route means it takes a lot longer for your cat to understand the punishment is linked to pouncing on you.
Good luck!
It definitely sounds like your cat is playing with you. Have you tried providing toys that you cat can hunt and attack instead of you? Have you tried using water spray bottles before an attack? If you can identify when your cat is about to attack you use a sprits of water immediately at the first sign of attack. If you can catch your cat before it attacks it could be very effective. While enforcing the spray bottle for negative behavior make sure to also reward your cat when it is being calm and relaxing with you to reinforce that this type of behavior is good.
Back on the topic of toys, you may want to invest in different types of toys so that your cat might attack the toys over you. Toys that move, hand or bounce around are good. My cat really likes to attack smaller catnip toys that I got from Petsmart. He鈥檚 also in love with attacking a shiny gold gift ribbon.
Also, I鈥檓 not sure who you live with, but you鈥檒l want to make sure that no one is play fighting with your cat. Play fighting with a cat reinforces that the aggressive behavior is OK and is actually doing more harm than good 鈥?especially when you鈥檙e trying to teach that it is not OK.
I have a cat from the local Animal Control. She had been there for months, evidently because of running up to people and scratching the back of the knee. She always wants something when she does this. Hiss at him when he stalks.
Make sure you play with him often when he isn't stalking. I think this a cat with lots of prey drive/playfulness. It is a social animal that has bad manners.
Our attack kitty would attack the dogs and go for the eyes or the boys' groins. Very bad, mean girl! She almost never attacks anymore unless we haven't gotten her more food and she has asked politely.
Be consistent and give it time!
well im not a psychologist but ill still try to help you out! :) If you see him stalking you, turn around and say no very sternly, dont yell though. If he bites you, spray him with a little bottle when ever he does this. Eventually he will learn that he gets sprayed when he bites.
He's just trying to play. Mine does the same. I don't mind it.
I'm not for physical reprimanding or ';the water spraying'; technique so...
I recommend wearing thick pants.
Or when you see him stalking...run up to him before he does to you. He'll most likely run away.
cry out REALLY loud in pain, even if it doesn't hurt.Your cat is trying to play so I would play with him more often, 15 mins at a time at least.
It definitely sounds like he is playing with you. Most cats are reluctant to stop a behavior that they enjoy, especially one that they have been doing for a long time. Have you tried carrying a spray bottle of water and squirting him when he does this? It doesn't hurt them but most cats hate it. If you are consistent with him he may stop. If you shake your foot a lot he will probably just think you are playing back. Most animals think that quick movement is either threatening or playful so maybe when he's attacking you stay still. Or if you see him stalking you you could stop moving around for a while until he gets bored or go sit down somewhere. Most cats that I have had experience with have had no concept of the word NO and bad cat meant nothing to them. Try hissing loudly with your tongue just to get his attention. If it is an obsessive thing a loud noise a lot of times will break his concentration and shift his focus. Good luck! Hope something there helps
Make sure you play with him for at least 15 minutes per day. Otherwise they will get bored and make up games of their own, (like this).
Don't assume automatically that cats that bite are vicious creatures. You must distinct between play-biting and real aggressive biting. Kittens for example like to play, and sometimes pretty rough. They use their claws and teeth to wrestle with each other. This is how they learn to hunt and catch prey, so that鈥檚 normal. They usually go unharmed because their fur protects them from serious wounds. However, human skin is a different story, but kittens don't know that.
When you stroke your kitten it can take it as an invitation to play and clasps your hand and bites. That might hurt a little but is generally nothing to worry about. Some cats make a sport out of leg biting. They jump up on you and dig in. Research has show that it鈥檚 a sort of unsatisfied hunting and prey instinct and lack of activity.
- Teach your kitten from an early age that hands are for feeding and stroking and NOT a toy!
- Avoid playing with your bare hands
- Use a fluffy toy or a feather on a string instead
- In case it grabs your hand, draw it away slowly and do NOT punish your cat, it will understand it as an attack and make matters worse.
- Anytime your cat scratches or bites you, make a loud yowling sound to show that you have been hurt, (even if you really aren鈥檛 hurt). Your cat will understand.
- If your cat is a ';leg biter'; try to spend more time playing with it and redirect its attack to a toy. Leave toys lying around so that he can also amuse itself, particular when you keep your cat indoors. Cats need a wide variety of toys to keep them interested, so don鈥檛 expect a couple toy mice to help.
I need your advice I really need some help don't know what to do what would be best for my little girl?
Her mother and I are curently going through a court battle in regards to her residence. I asked what contact I can have with my daughter until then but on all the dates I have proposed she has said she is working. But she said she only works every 2nd Sat so I can see her this Sat but then in the same letter she said she is working every weekend until Sat 7th July (as you can see this is not every 2nd Sat) But then she went on to say if I drop going for residence then I can have her for half the holidays and staying contact every fortnight comencing this weekend. Should I give up on residence and take the contact or should I stick to my initial intentions.I need your advice I really need some help don't know what to do what would be best for my little girl?
Whatever you feel to be best for your daughter...However,do it through the court so that she cannot keep changing the rules,which she may well do if something upsets her....I need your advice I really need some help don't know what to do what would be best for my little girl?
Wait a minute, your screen name is Deborah A. You are fighting for custody of a 3 year old with your EX WIFE? Was it a lesbian marriage? I am so lost. '; Now the child is calling another man daddy. '; Way lost.
I gave up the fight, I believed what I was told. Silly me trusted there dad would stick to his word. I spent 7years with out my children. I have returned letters and memories of them telling me to f off. Stick to your guns.
Go for what is best for your daughter - your feelings and your wife's feeling do not count in this instance - your daughter is paramount.
I am not saying this lightly - sounds like wife is using her against you.
Continue fighting for residence. Your daughters Mother will continue playing these vicious games. Just by doing what she is doing now by denying visitation with your daughter is proof enough that she is not a good mother. It may be hard right now but think of how much harder it will be when she holds all the cards. Fight for your little girl you are what is best for her.
Hi,
I would stick to your initial intentions, because there is nothing stopping her changing her mind, when it suits her!.
At least with the courts, a decision will be met, and you both will have to stick to it!.
So keep going, don't let her bully you into changing your mind, good luck.
If your reasons for residencial custody are legit then stick to your guns. But remember to handle this situation in the best interest of your daughter and not out of spite for each other for the problems that led to this situation. Always be friendly and compromise with every situation, she will come around and before you know it, you will have this situation worked out totally different then the court orders.....Just always be friendly and walk away when the situation is not.
I dont belive in trying to take a child off the mother unless there is a good reason as in drugs or abuse doing it to get back at someone is wrong.I think you should have the right to see your daughter and she shouldnt be putting barriers up if you two cant come to an agreement together get a mediator you could drop the residence order to keep the peace but go to court and get access sorted .You both need to realise that its whats best for the child at the end of the day and there is no point trying to get back at each other you need to talk to your ex and sort it out because your just going to end up hurting your daughter .Your trying to take your daughter away from the mother which i think would do more harm than good to the child im sure you could be civilised with your ex for the sake of your child.
Try explaining this to her mother, say how you feel, try not to gety heated or too upset as it may result in her shutting down and things becomming more difficult. It could be she is really buisy and isnt thinking straight or it could be more sinister than that- that shes trying to deter you from seeing your daughter, its hard to say from whats happening and what you have described, maybe ask her what her motives are? (in a quizative way a oppose to iterally shouting at her ';what is the meaning of this...';
My guess is shes written to you so try responding to her in the same way, by letter, photocopy and keep the original with everything you do. Give her a few days to respond and if she doesnt then your left with not much choice if you want to see your child.
I hate to say it as they are pricey but this is what lawyers are there for, they do cost but atleast you know things that do happen will near enough be written in stone and contradicotry letters are likely to be a thing of the past as a lawyer will be writing a letter and not her.
I know you have the childs interests at heart, but please try to keep calm and just be there (if you do get the opportunity) for your daughter, as a product of a divorced relationship, I can say for me the negative effects of divorce are the arguements before the divorce (which apparently were much about me and my sister- though with no thanks from either me or my sister!) and are the parts where the child feels very uneasy and worried and their entire world is changing and all they can see is one or the other parent whom they depend on will not be around as much- if atall, and this means they loose a big part of their live that they have always had there. Its abit like having a docor tell you, you will loose both your legs or both your arms or soimething, and that there is no wheel chair or crutches or whatever, you just have to go with it. Arguing over it worsens the build up which makes it all the more painful for everyone involved.
You do sound like you have her best interests at heart and I'm sure my parents did too. But I also think they let their pride rule thier decisions and the ';sticking together for the children'; which they also did for 8 years also doesnt work!
I hope it works out for you I really do, I can appreciate its hard for fathers, but if its any help, my dad won custody of both me and my sister (my mum didnt have enough money to house us both and my dad said he wouldnt pay for my violin lessons if he didnt get custody.) my dad was very manipulative though so I dont recommend doing this. Its resulted in me hating him and my sister feeling sorry for him. It seems the truth will out in the end as I'm not the first to have experienced a situation like this I'm sure!
You will always be a part of your daughters life and please dont forget this!
Whatever you feel to be best for your daughter...However,do it through the court so that she cannot keep changing the rules,which she may well do if something upsets her....I need your advice I really need some help don't know what to do what would be best for my little girl?
Wait a minute, your screen name is Deborah A. You are fighting for custody of a 3 year old with your EX WIFE? Was it a lesbian marriage? I am so lost. '; Now the child is calling another man daddy. '; Way lost.
I gave up the fight, I believed what I was told. Silly me trusted there dad would stick to his word. I spent 7years with out my children. I have returned letters and memories of them telling me to f off. Stick to your guns.
Go for what is best for your daughter - your feelings and your wife's feeling do not count in this instance - your daughter is paramount.
I am not saying this lightly - sounds like wife is using her against you.
Continue fighting for residence. Your daughters Mother will continue playing these vicious games. Just by doing what she is doing now by denying visitation with your daughter is proof enough that she is not a good mother. It may be hard right now but think of how much harder it will be when she holds all the cards. Fight for your little girl you are what is best for her.
Hi,
I would stick to your initial intentions, because there is nothing stopping her changing her mind, when it suits her!.
At least with the courts, a decision will be met, and you both will have to stick to it!.
So keep going, don't let her bully you into changing your mind, good luck.
If your reasons for residencial custody are legit then stick to your guns. But remember to handle this situation in the best interest of your daughter and not out of spite for each other for the problems that led to this situation. Always be friendly and compromise with every situation, she will come around and before you know it, you will have this situation worked out totally different then the court orders.....Just always be friendly and walk away when the situation is not.
I dont belive in trying to take a child off the mother unless there is a good reason as in drugs or abuse doing it to get back at someone is wrong.I think you should have the right to see your daughter and she shouldnt be putting barriers up if you two cant come to an agreement together get a mediator you could drop the residence order to keep the peace but go to court and get access sorted .You both need to realise that its whats best for the child at the end of the day and there is no point trying to get back at each other you need to talk to your ex and sort it out because your just going to end up hurting your daughter .Your trying to take your daughter away from the mother which i think would do more harm than good to the child im sure you could be civilised with your ex for the sake of your child.
Try explaining this to her mother, say how you feel, try not to gety heated or too upset as it may result in her shutting down and things becomming more difficult. It could be she is really buisy and isnt thinking straight or it could be more sinister than that- that shes trying to deter you from seeing your daughter, its hard to say from whats happening and what you have described, maybe ask her what her motives are? (in a quizative way a oppose to iterally shouting at her ';what is the meaning of this...';
My guess is shes written to you so try responding to her in the same way, by letter, photocopy and keep the original with everything you do. Give her a few days to respond and if she doesnt then your left with not much choice if you want to see your child.
I hate to say it as they are pricey but this is what lawyers are there for, they do cost but atleast you know things that do happen will near enough be written in stone and contradicotry letters are likely to be a thing of the past as a lawyer will be writing a letter and not her.
I know you have the childs interests at heart, but please try to keep calm and just be there (if you do get the opportunity) for your daughter, as a product of a divorced relationship, I can say for me the negative effects of divorce are the arguements before the divorce (which apparently were much about me and my sister- though with no thanks from either me or my sister!) and are the parts where the child feels very uneasy and worried and their entire world is changing and all they can see is one or the other parent whom they depend on will not be around as much- if atall, and this means they loose a big part of their live that they have always had there. Its abit like having a docor tell you, you will loose both your legs or both your arms or soimething, and that there is no wheel chair or crutches or whatever, you just have to go with it. Arguing over it worsens the build up which makes it all the more painful for everyone involved.
You do sound like you have her best interests at heart and I'm sure my parents did too. But I also think they let their pride rule thier decisions and the ';sticking together for the children'; which they also did for 8 years also doesnt work!
I hope it works out for you I really do, I can appreciate its hard for fathers, but if its any help, my dad won custody of both me and my sister (my mum didnt have enough money to house us both and my dad said he wouldnt pay for my violin lessons if he didnt get custody.) my dad was very manipulative though so I dont recommend doing this. Its resulted in me hating him and my sister feeling sorry for him. It seems the truth will out in the end as I'm not the first to have experienced a situation like this I'm sure!
You will always be a part of your daughters life and please dont forget this!
Any advice for me before i take the Virginia Beach Police exam?Is this different from other civil servicetest?
Yeah. Study for it. ';Study guides prepared by the test developer, Stanard and Associates, are available for purchase for $5.00
(check or money order only; addressed to City Treasurer).';
Also: ';For applicants with concerns about the written exam, ECPI offers an 8-hour preparatory class to all police
applicants.';
(check or money order only; addressed to City Treasurer).';
Also: ';For applicants with concerns about the written exam, ECPI offers an 8-hour preparatory class to all police
applicants.';
Any advice for someone is nervous to go to a commercial audition?
dont give one word answers, be yourselfAny advice for someone is nervous to go to a commercial audition?
Forget everything you know.
Forget everything you know.
I am 14 and currently in school but trying to look for a summer job, any advice on where I should apply?
I am turning 14 in July by the way, so will i even be able to get a job?I am 14 and currently in school but trying to look for a summer job, any advice on where I should apply?
2 things for you to look at - (1) the YA ';resolved questions'; section, where this Q has been asked and answered 1000's of times and (2) a newspaper that will read ';14 million out of work and only 2 million jobs available';....look in your neighborhood for odd jobs there...sorry :[I am 14 and currently in school but trying to look for a summer job, any advice on where I should apply?
Okay so I think the person above me is a bot or something because he posted that same thing on another unrelated question. Anyway I think you have to be 16 to get a job, I'm not sure though try doing some research about that in your area.
2 things for you to look at - (1) the YA ';resolved questions'; section, where this Q has been asked and answered 1000's of times and (2) a newspaper that will read ';14 million out of work and only 2 million jobs available';....look in your neighborhood for odd jobs there...sorry :[I am 14 and currently in school but trying to look for a summer job, any advice on where I should apply?
Okay so I think the person above me is a bot or something because he posted that same thing on another unrelated question. Anyway I think you have to be 16 to get a job, I'm not sure though try doing some research about that in your area.
I'm gonna join an Iron Maiden cover band and I'm gonna be Paul DiAnno- please give me advice?
What you need to do is keep your hair crazy not spiked, wear leather half punk half metal, wear a spiked wristband, listen to a few of his songs and start singing like he does (somewhat punk and somewhat metal) also in the middle of a show take your shirt off and get really into the music and then just get drunk. To be honest be yourself and have fun man any body that wants to sing and cover the greatest band in the world would be a hard thing to do but should be fun to.
I hope this helped but the best thing you need to do is just look at his videos and see what he does and how he sings.
Check out this website and there is some info on his singing style and life.
Be cool brother and i did add you as a contact.
UP THE IRONS.I'm gonna join an Iron Maiden cover band and I'm gonna be Paul DiAnno- please give me advice?
Please don'tcartridge remedies blackheads
I hope this helped but the best thing you need to do is just look at his videos and see what he does and how he sings.
Check out this website and there is some info on his singing style and life.
Be cool brother and i did add you as a contact.
UP THE IRONS.I'm gonna join an Iron Maiden cover band and I'm gonna be Paul DiAnno- please give me advice?
Please don't
Men I need advice can a man be in-love with his live in girlfriend which he share a baby with fall in-love?
with the other woman who also, has a baby by him the the babies are 15 months apart .is it possible that he can love them the same . would a man tell about the baby with the other woman?Men I need advice can a man be in-love with his live in girlfriend which he share a baby with fall in-love?
yeah it's called being a liar and a cheat... you have tow woman that you need to come clean with... They will meet one day.. Trust me... you don't want everything to come out when the kids go to school.. you need to come clean...You are not in love with both of these woman... One of them you are lusting after. You have a choice to make and it is not fair to them that you are playing the field and having babies.. How would you feel if they did that to you? all I can tell you is that they are going to be hurt and your live in girl friend may try to hurt you because you are playing on her emotions and no woman likes that. You need to grow up and realize that you can not have your cake and eat it too...Men I need advice can a man be in-love with his live in girlfriend which he share a baby with fall in-love?
a love triangle almost always has a self destruct mechanism built in .in rare cases it can work but it's rare because jealousy is a inborn human trait and the fuse that destroys relationships.
yeah it's called being a liar and a cheat... you have tow woman that you need to come clean with... They will meet one day.. Trust me... you don't want everything to come out when the kids go to school.. you need to come clean...You are not in love with both of these woman... One of them you are lusting after. You have a choice to make and it is not fair to them that you are playing the field and having babies.. How would you feel if they did that to you? all I can tell you is that they are going to be hurt and your live in girl friend may try to hurt you because you are playing on her emotions and no woman likes that. You need to grow up and realize that you can not have your cake and eat it too...Men I need advice can a man be in-love with his live in girlfriend which he share a baby with fall in-love?
a love triangle almost always has a self destruct mechanism built in .in rare cases it can work but it's rare because jealousy is a inborn human trait and the fuse that destroys relationships.
What advice would you give someone/a company who is about to implement an ERP system?
- Identify the correct ERP product for the respective business
- Choose the correct implementation partner (who is competent and has a good reputation)
- Choose the appropriate modules to implement (dont overdo or underdo)
- Form a good core team who can work dedicatedly for the project - along with a competent project manager who can handle all issues
- Set proper timelines
- Get a complete buy in from all stake holders, especially heads of departments
- Devise a plan to keep the core team productive in a different role post implementation period
- Invest in proper hardware / network for speed
- Devise a proper strategy for implementation (single unit, all units)
- Choose the correct implementation partner (who is competent and has a good reputation)
- Choose the appropriate modules to implement (dont overdo or underdo)
- Form a good core team who can work dedicatedly for the project - along with a competent project manager who can handle all issues
- Set proper timelines
- Get a complete buy in from all stake holders, especially heads of departments
- Devise a plan to keep the core team productive in a different role post implementation period
- Invest in proper hardware / network for speed
- Devise a proper strategy for implementation (single unit, all units)
Is there anyway for me to have an advice collum in the newspaper?
Is t possible? If so how do i apply? Is there anyway for me to have an advice collum in the newspaper?
Uhm..er, no. It's spelled ';column';...the editor might have a problem with your spelling...
HOWEVER. You need to have some background on the type of advice that you would be giving. Example: experience gardening if you were going to do a gardening column, or 20 years of cooking for a food column on cooking... Get the experience, write up THREE sample columns, call and make appointment to have 5 mins of the editor's time... then go in, tell him what you want to do, hand him the columns and leave, saying, if you are interested, my name and phone number is on each of the columns....
Uhm..er, no. It's spelled ';column';...the editor might have a problem with your spelling...
HOWEVER. You need to have some background on the type of advice that you would be giving. Example: experience gardening if you were going to do a gardening column, or 20 years of cooking for a food column on cooking... Get the experience, write up THREE sample columns, call and make appointment to have 5 mins of the editor's time... then go in, tell him what you want to do, hand him the columns and leave, saying, if you are interested, my name and phone number is on each of the columns....
Career crisis!! Any advice would be appreciated!?
I'm a 1st yr uni student and I'm still unsure of what I want to do once I graduate. I have almost a year of business under my belt which I found wasn't very intellectually stimulating. I think I might be interested in psychology, human resources or industrial relations/employment litigation. If you have any advice.... (like you think HR is a deadend path, or if I should consider studying psychology instead.... ) I'ld really like to hear it...Career crisis!! Any advice would be appreciated!?
Slow down on that ';big'; career move
Your parents may be pressuring you with the old ';What are you going to do when you graduate?'; As the parent of a college students, I can tell you the inclination is to look for the endgame - job, career, etc..
But don't get too wrapped up in what they want for you. While a few business courses are recommended, it may not be the well-rounded education your parents think it is. Any social services degree (psychology, etcc.) requires a masters degree also or heavy emphasis in busines as well. A HR graduate could end up in any field (museums, hospitals, schools) so it's best to get a wide range of classes.
For the next year, get all your required classes out of the way. If you can afford it, go to summer school also, either there or at home at a community college (cheaper).
A good way to find out what kinds of jobs are there for graduates is to visit your college career center and look at their job listings.
Good luck...Career crisis!! Any advice would be appreciated!?
School SUCKS and so does the J.O.B. market you will end up working for some pain in the a- -
You should just find a successful older doctor or lawyer like your mother told you to!!! have his pain in the a - - kids and spend his money on your poor mother she deserves it for giving you good advice from the start. good luck with your career move.
For the first two years, take all your liberal arts requirement courses, and take courses that you think you'll enjoy. In your third and fourth year, go for more specialized courses once you have found something you really like during your first two years.
Get a degree in something you enjoy. Then you can figure out your career path once you start applying for jobs that interest you. Careers are made by experience, not by education (unless you're in a skilled profession like medicine, nursing, law, etc. where specific education is needed.)
You can get any liberal arts degree and then decide what job you'd like to take. Your degree may end up not being your career. The two aren't necessarily synonymous.
I got a degree in Spanish and became a health writer in the end.
Slow down on that ';big'; career move
Your parents may be pressuring you with the old ';What are you going to do when you graduate?'; As the parent of a college students, I can tell you the inclination is to look for the endgame - job, career, etc..
But don't get too wrapped up in what they want for you. While a few business courses are recommended, it may not be the well-rounded education your parents think it is. Any social services degree (psychology, etcc.) requires a masters degree also or heavy emphasis in busines as well. A HR graduate could end up in any field (museums, hospitals, schools) so it's best to get a wide range of classes.
For the next year, get all your required classes out of the way. If you can afford it, go to summer school also, either there or at home at a community college (cheaper).
A good way to find out what kinds of jobs are there for graduates is to visit your college career center and look at their job listings.
Good luck...Career crisis!! Any advice would be appreciated!?
School SUCKS and so does the J.O.B. market you will end up working for some pain in the a- -
You should just find a successful older doctor or lawyer like your mother told you to!!! have his pain in the a - - kids and spend his money on your poor mother she deserves it for giving you good advice from the start. good luck with your career move.
For the first two years, take all your liberal arts requirement courses, and take courses that you think you'll enjoy. In your third and fourth year, go for more specialized courses once you have found something you really like during your first two years.
Get a degree in something you enjoy. Then you can figure out your career path once you start applying for jobs that interest you. Careers are made by experience, not by education (unless you're in a skilled profession like medicine, nursing, law, etc. where specific education is needed.)
You can get any liberal arts degree and then decide what job you'd like to take. Your degree may end up not being your career. The two aren't necessarily synonymous.
I got a degree in Spanish and became a health writer in the end.
Was it wise for HIllary to take the advice of her advisers who gave her the thumbs up to dis creationists?
In Hillary's interview with the New York Times she expressed SHOCK that some Senators did not believe in evolution and gave arguments that sounded like they came from a 6th grader, citing no arguments that a studies modern creationist would use. One would assume correctly she is familiar with none of them but willing to put down creationists based on a shallow understanding.
Is it an example of Hillary displaying bad judgment taking the advice or her advisers giving her bad advice or bothWas it wise for HIllary to take the advice of her advisers who gave her the thumbs up to dis creationists?
Hillary voted for war in Iraq then later said she would not have voted that way if she knew then what she knows now. She then admitted she had not taken time to read the intelligence reports on Iraq but rather took the information from her aids. This lack of judgment and responsible decision making has cost thousands of American lives in a war we should never have been in. We are now involved and have little chance of getting out without causing even bigger problems. Hillary has offered to give U S citizens a thousand dollars to start saving accounts with - poor judgment again; she thinks she can buy her way into office. She reminds me of the old saying, “If you can’t baffle them with brilliance, dazzle them with BS”!Was it wise for HIllary to take the advice of her advisers who gave her the thumbs up to dis creationists?
Well I would express shock too . . . these same politicians are vested with the responsibility of voting on issues of scientific and environmental policy and dealing with facts.
If they're running around casting votes while thinking the earth is a mere 4,000 years old and dinosaurs roamed around while Moses was delivered tablets, what's to stop our entire foreign policy from being based upon some lunatic idea that the end times are near and we're supposed to engage in some kind of nuclear Armageddon to force Jesus to show his face again and rapture up the believers?
In the meantime, stem cell research grinds to a halt and all you sufferers of disease that might be relieved by such research's results should just suck up and git right wit religion (the right religion, none of those fakirs).
Sure it was wise... 82% of Americans believe in evolution and 43% of that 82% believe in evolution in combination with Christianity.
If she is criticizing creations, who will she criticize next? Flat earthers?
Evolution and Creation work together beautifully.
I am sure there is a God that created all that is, what ever his name is. There is to much order in the universe for all this to have just happened.
If you look around you can see evolution at work all around us.
The Bible tells me that God created Heaven and Earth it doesn't say how he did it and who are we to start telling God how to do his job.
Hillary will know the answer next time it comes up if she didn't already at the time of the question. By the way, evolution and creation need not be considered in opposition to one another.
My guess is that her advisers told her that the vast majority of the voting population agreed with her and were not creationists. Unbelievably, people agree with solid science.
We thank you anti-science knuckledraggers. We'll take the votes of the educated. The Republicans can have the rest.
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Is it an example of Hillary displaying bad judgment taking the advice or her advisers giving her bad advice or bothWas it wise for HIllary to take the advice of her advisers who gave her the thumbs up to dis creationists?
Hillary voted for war in Iraq then later said she would not have voted that way if she knew then what she knows now. She then admitted she had not taken time to read the intelligence reports on Iraq but rather took the information from her aids. This lack of judgment and responsible decision making has cost thousands of American lives in a war we should never have been in. We are now involved and have little chance of getting out without causing even bigger problems. Hillary has offered to give U S citizens a thousand dollars to start saving accounts with - poor judgment again; she thinks she can buy her way into office. She reminds me of the old saying, “If you can’t baffle them with brilliance, dazzle them with BS”!Was it wise for HIllary to take the advice of her advisers who gave her the thumbs up to dis creationists?
Well I would express shock too . . . these same politicians are vested with the responsibility of voting on issues of scientific and environmental policy and dealing with facts.
If they're running around casting votes while thinking the earth is a mere 4,000 years old and dinosaurs roamed around while Moses was delivered tablets, what's to stop our entire foreign policy from being based upon some lunatic idea that the end times are near and we're supposed to engage in some kind of nuclear Armageddon to force Jesus to show his face again and rapture up the believers?
In the meantime, stem cell research grinds to a halt and all you sufferers of disease that might be relieved by such research's results should just suck up and git right wit religion (the right religion, none of those fakirs).
Sure it was wise... 82% of Americans believe in evolution and 43% of that 82% believe in evolution in combination with Christianity.
If she is criticizing creations, who will she criticize next? Flat earthers?
Evolution and Creation work together beautifully.
I am sure there is a God that created all that is, what ever his name is. There is to much order in the universe for all this to have just happened.
If you look around you can see evolution at work all around us.
The Bible tells me that God created Heaven and Earth it doesn't say how he did it and who are we to start telling God how to do his job.
Hillary will know the answer next time it comes up if she didn't already at the time of the question. By the way, evolution and creation need not be considered in opposition to one another.
My guess is that her advisers told her that the vast majority of the voting population agreed with her and were not creationists. Unbelievably, people agree with solid science.
We thank you anti-science knuckledraggers. We'll take the votes of the educated. The Republicans can have the rest.
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Any advice for someone is nervous to go to a commercial audition?
dont give one word answers, be yourselfAny advice for someone is nervous to go to a commercial audition?
Forget everything you know.cartridge remedies blackheads
Forget everything you know.
I am 14 and currently in school but trying to look for a summer job, any advice on where I should apply?
I am turning 14 in July by the way, so will i even be able to get a job?I am 14 and currently in school but trying to look for a summer job, any advice on where I should apply?
2 things for you to look at - (1) the YA ';resolved questions'; section, where this Q has been asked and answered 1000's of times and (2) a newspaper that will read ';14 million out of work and only 2 million jobs available';....look in your neighborhood for odd jobs there...sorry :[I am 14 and currently in school but trying to look for a summer job, any advice on where I should apply?
Okay so I think the person above me is a bot or something because he posted that same thing on another unrelated question. Anyway I think you have to be 16 to get a job, I'm not sure though try doing some research about that in your area.
2 things for you to look at - (1) the YA ';resolved questions'; section, where this Q has been asked and answered 1000's of times and (2) a newspaper that will read ';14 million out of work and only 2 million jobs available';....look in your neighborhood for odd jobs there...sorry :[I am 14 and currently in school but trying to look for a summer job, any advice on where I should apply?
Okay so I think the person above me is a bot or something because he posted that same thing on another unrelated question. Anyway I think you have to be 16 to get a job, I'm not sure though try doing some research about that in your area.
I'm gonna join an Iron Maiden cover band and I'm gonna be Paul DiAnno- please give me advice?
What you need to do is keep your hair crazy not spiked, wear leather half punk half metal, wear a spiked wristband, listen to a few of his songs and start singing like he does (somewhat punk and somewhat metal) also in the middle of a show take your shirt off and get really into the music and then just get drunk. To be honest be yourself and have fun man any body that wants to sing and cover the greatest band in the world would be a hard thing to do but should be fun to.
I hope this helped but the best thing you need to do is just look at his videos and see what he does and how he sings.
Check out this website and there is some info on his singing style and life.
Be cool brother and i did add you as a contact.
UP THE IRONS.I'm gonna join an Iron Maiden cover band and I'm gonna be Paul DiAnno- please give me advice?
Please don't
I hope this helped but the best thing you need to do is just look at his videos and see what he does and how he sings.
Check out this website and there is some info on his singing style and life.
Be cool brother and i did add you as a contact.
UP THE IRONS.I'm gonna join an Iron Maiden cover band and I'm gonna be Paul DiAnno- please give me advice?
Please don't
Men I need advice can a man be in-love with his live in girlfriend which he share a baby with fall in-love?
with the other woman who also, has a baby by him the the babies are 15 months apart .is it possible that he can love them the same . would a man tell about the baby with the other woman?Men I need advice can a man be in-love with his live in girlfriend which he share a baby with fall in-love?
yeah it's called being a liar and a cheat... you have tow woman that you need to come clean with... They will meet one day.. Trust me... you don't want everything to come out when the kids go to school.. you need to come clean...You are not in love with both of these woman... One of them you are lusting after. You have a choice to make and it is not fair to them that you are playing the field and having babies.. How would you feel if they did that to you? all I can tell you is that they are going to be hurt and your live in girl friend may try to hurt you because you are playing on her emotions and no woman likes that. You need to grow up and realize that you can not have your cake and eat it too...Men I need advice can a man be in-love with his live in girlfriend which he share a baby with fall in-love?
a love triangle almost always has a self destruct mechanism built in .in rare cases it can work but it's rare because jealousy is a inborn human trait and the fuse that destroys relationships.
yeah it's called being a liar and a cheat... you have tow woman that you need to come clean with... They will meet one day.. Trust me... you don't want everything to come out when the kids go to school.. you need to come clean...You are not in love with both of these woman... One of them you are lusting after. You have a choice to make and it is not fair to them that you are playing the field and having babies.. How would you feel if they did that to you? all I can tell you is that they are going to be hurt and your live in girl friend may try to hurt you because you are playing on her emotions and no woman likes that. You need to grow up and realize that you can not have your cake and eat it too...Men I need advice can a man be in-love with his live in girlfriend which he share a baby with fall in-love?
a love triangle almost always has a self destruct mechanism built in .in rare cases it can work but it's rare because jealousy is a inborn human trait and the fuse that destroys relationships.
What advice would you give someone/a company who is about to implement an ERP system?
- Identify the correct ERP product for the respective business
- Choose the correct implementation partner (who is competent and has a good reputation)
- Choose the appropriate modules to implement (dont overdo or underdo)
- Form a good core team who can work dedicatedly for the project - along with a competent project manager who can handle all issues
- Set proper timelines
- Get a complete buy in from all stake holders, especially heads of departments
- Devise a plan to keep the core team productive in a different role post implementation period
- Invest in proper hardware / network for speed
- Devise a proper strategy for implementation (single unit, all units)
- Choose the correct implementation partner (who is competent and has a good reputation)
- Choose the appropriate modules to implement (dont overdo or underdo)
- Form a good core team who can work dedicatedly for the project - along with a competent project manager who can handle all issues
- Set proper timelines
- Get a complete buy in from all stake holders, especially heads of departments
- Devise a plan to keep the core team productive in a different role post implementation period
- Invest in proper hardware / network for speed
- Devise a proper strategy for implementation (single unit, all units)
Is there anyway for me to have an advice collum in the newspaper?
Is t possible? If so how do i apply? Is there anyway for me to have an advice collum in the newspaper?
Uhm..er, no. It's spelled ';column';...the editor might have a problem with your spelling...
HOWEVER. You need to have some background on the type of advice that you would be giving. Example: experience gardening if you were going to do a gardening column, or 20 years of cooking for a food column on cooking... Get the experience, write up THREE sample columns, call and make appointment to have 5 mins of the editor's time... then go in, tell him what you want to do, hand him the columns and leave, saying, if you are interested, my name and phone number is on each of the columns....
Uhm..er, no. It's spelled ';column';...the editor might have a problem with your spelling...
HOWEVER. You need to have some background on the type of advice that you would be giving. Example: experience gardening if you were going to do a gardening column, or 20 years of cooking for a food column on cooking... Get the experience, write up THREE sample columns, call and make appointment to have 5 mins of the editor's time... then go in, tell him what you want to do, hand him the columns and leave, saying, if you are interested, my name and phone number is on each of the columns....
Career crisis!! Any advice would be appreciated!?
I'm a 1st yr uni student and I'm still unsure of what I want to do once I graduate. I have almost a year of business under my belt which I found wasn't very intellectually stimulating. I think I might be interested in psychology, human resources or industrial relations/employment litigation. If you have any advice.... (like you think HR is a deadend path, or if I should consider studying psychology instead.... ) I'ld really like to hear it...Career crisis!! Any advice would be appreciated!?
Slow down on that ';big'; career move
Your parents may be pressuring you with the old ';What are you going to do when you graduate?'; As the parent of a college students, I can tell you the inclination is to look for the endgame - job, career, etc..
But don't get too wrapped up in what they want for you. While a few business courses are recommended, it may not be the well-rounded education your parents think it is. Any social services degree (psychology, etcc.) requires a masters degree also or heavy emphasis in busines as well. A HR graduate could end up in any field (museums, hospitals, schools) so it's best to get a wide range of classes.
For the next year, get all your required classes out of the way. If you can afford it, go to summer school also, either there or at home at a community college (cheaper).
A good way to find out what kinds of jobs are there for graduates is to visit your college career center and look at their job listings.
Good luck...Career crisis!! Any advice would be appreciated!?
School SUCKS and so does the J.O.B. market you will end up working for some pain in the a- -
You should just find a successful older doctor or lawyer like your mother told you to!!! have his pain in the a - - kids and spend his money on your poor mother she deserves it for giving you good advice from the start. good luck with your career move.
For the first two years, take all your liberal arts requirement courses, and take courses that you think you'll enjoy. In your third and fourth year, go for more specialized courses once you have found something you really like during your first two years.
Get a degree in something you enjoy. Then you can figure out your career path once you start applying for jobs that interest you. Careers are made by experience, not by education (unless you're in a skilled profession like medicine, nursing, law, etc. where specific education is needed.)
You can get any liberal arts degree and then decide what job you'd like to take. Your degree may end up not being your career. The two aren't necessarily synonymous.
I got a degree in Spanish and became a health writer in the end.cartridge remedies blackheads
Slow down on that ';big'; career move
Your parents may be pressuring you with the old ';What are you going to do when you graduate?'; As the parent of a college students, I can tell you the inclination is to look for the endgame - job, career, etc..
But don't get too wrapped up in what they want for you. While a few business courses are recommended, it may not be the well-rounded education your parents think it is. Any social services degree (psychology, etcc.) requires a masters degree also or heavy emphasis in busines as well. A HR graduate could end up in any field (museums, hospitals, schools) so it's best to get a wide range of classes.
For the next year, get all your required classes out of the way. If you can afford it, go to summer school also, either there or at home at a community college (cheaper).
A good way to find out what kinds of jobs are there for graduates is to visit your college career center and look at their job listings.
Good luck...Career crisis!! Any advice would be appreciated!?
School SUCKS and so does the J.O.B. market you will end up working for some pain in the a- -
You should just find a successful older doctor or lawyer like your mother told you to!!! have his pain in the a - - kids and spend his money on your poor mother she deserves it for giving you good advice from the start. good luck with your career move.
For the first two years, take all your liberal arts requirement courses, and take courses that you think you'll enjoy. In your third and fourth year, go for more specialized courses once you have found something you really like during your first two years.
Get a degree in something you enjoy. Then you can figure out your career path once you start applying for jobs that interest you. Careers are made by experience, not by education (unless you're in a skilled profession like medicine, nursing, law, etc. where specific education is needed.)
You can get any liberal arts degree and then decide what job you'd like to take. Your degree may end up not being your career. The two aren't necessarily synonymous.
I got a degree in Spanish and became a health writer in the end.
Was it wise for HIllary to take the advice of her advisers who gave her the thumbs up to dis creationists?
In Hillary's interview with the New York Times she expressed SHOCK that some Senators did not believe in evolution and gave arguments that sounded like they came from a 6th grader, citing no arguments that a studies modern creationist would use. One would assume correctly she is familiar with none of them but willing to put down creationists based on a shallow understanding.
Is it an example of Hillary displaying bad judgment taking the advice or her advisers giving her bad advice or bothWas it wise for HIllary to take the advice of her advisers who gave her the thumbs up to dis creationists?
Hillary voted for war in Iraq then later said she would not have voted that way if she knew then what she knows now. She then admitted she had not taken time to read the intelligence reports on Iraq but rather took the information from her aids. This lack of judgment and responsible decision making has cost thousands of American lives in a war we should never have been in. We are now involved and have little chance of getting out without causing even bigger problems. Hillary has offered to give U S citizens a thousand dollars to start saving accounts with - poor judgment again; she thinks she can buy her way into office. She reminds me of the old saying, “If you can’t baffle them with brilliance, dazzle them with BS”!Was it wise for HIllary to take the advice of her advisers who gave her the thumbs up to dis creationists?
Well I would express shock too . . . these same politicians are vested with the responsibility of voting on issues of scientific and environmental policy and dealing with facts.
If they're running around casting votes while thinking the earth is a mere 4,000 years old and dinosaurs roamed around while Moses was delivered tablets, what's to stop our entire foreign policy from being based upon some lunatic idea that the end times are near and we're supposed to engage in some kind of nuclear Armageddon to force Jesus to show his face again and rapture up the believers?
In the meantime, stem cell research grinds to a halt and all you sufferers of disease that might be relieved by such research's results should just suck up and git right wit religion (the right religion, none of those fakirs).
Sure it was wise... 82% of Americans believe in evolution and 43% of that 82% believe in evolution in combination with Christianity.
If she is criticizing creations, who will she criticize next? Flat earthers?
Evolution and Creation work together beautifully.
I am sure there is a God that created all that is, what ever his name is. There is to much order in the universe for all this to have just happened.
If you look around you can see evolution at work all around us.
The Bible tells me that God created Heaven and Earth it doesn't say how he did it and who are we to start telling God how to do his job.
Hillary will know the answer next time it comes up if she didn't already at the time of the question. By the way, evolution and creation need not be considered in opposition to one another.
My guess is that her advisers told her that the vast majority of the voting population agreed with her and were not creationists. Unbelievably, people agree with solid science.
We thank you anti-science knuckledraggers. We'll take the votes of the educated. The Republicans can have the rest.
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Is it an example of Hillary displaying bad judgment taking the advice or her advisers giving her bad advice or bothWas it wise for HIllary to take the advice of her advisers who gave her the thumbs up to dis creationists?
Hillary voted for war in Iraq then later said she would not have voted that way if she knew then what she knows now. She then admitted she had not taken time to read the intelligence reports on Iraq but rather took the information from her aids. This lack of judgment and responsible decision making has cost thousands of American lives in a war we should never have been in. We are now involved and have little chance of getting out without causing even bigger problems. Hillary has offered to give U S citizens a thousand dollars to start saving accounts with - poor judgment again; she thinks she can buy her way into office. She reminds me of the old saying, “If you can’t baffle them with brilliance, dazzle them with BS”!Was it wise for HIllary to take the advice of her advisers who gave her the thumbs up to dis creationists?
Well I would express shock too . . . these same politicians are vested with the responsibility of voting on issues of scientific and environmental policy and dealing with facts.
If they're running around casting votes while thinking the earth is a mere 4,000 years old and dinosaurs roamed around while Moses was delivered tablets, what's to stop our entire foreign policy from being based upon some lunatic idea that the end times are near and we're supposed to engage in some kind of nuclear Armageddon to force Jesus to show his face again and rapture up the believers?
In the meantime, stem cell research grinds to a halt and all you sufferers of disease that might be relieved by such research's results should just suck up and git right wit religion (the right religion, none of those fakirs).
Sure it was wise... 82% of Americans believe in evolution and 43% of that 82% believe in evolution in combination with Christianity.
If she is criticizing creations, who will she criticize next? Flat earthers?
Evolution and Creation work together beautifully.
I am sure there is a God that created all that is, what ever his name is. There is to much order in the universe for all this to have just happened.
If you look around you can see evolution at work all around us.
The Bible tells me that God created Heaven and Earth it doesn't say how he did it and who are we to start telling God how to do his job.
Hillary will know the answer next time it comes up if she didn't already at the time of the question. By the way, evolution and creation need not be considered in opposition to one another.
My guess is that her advisers told her that the vast majority of the voting population agreed with her and were not creationists. Unbelievably, people agree with solid science.
We thank you anti-science knuckledraggers. We'll take the votes of the educated. The Republicans can have the rest.
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I will be starting high school soon, is there any advice on it, about guys, things that go on?
Dont rush into anything! Have fun, get involved with clubs at school, go to football games, go to the dances, hang out with your friends. Just enjoy it.I will be starting high school soon, is there any advice on it, about guys, things that go on?
Here's my advice. Don't get drunk at parties, and stay off of pills and other drugs. CHOOSE YOU FRIENDS WISELY. If there aren't any who are worthy, then stick to yourself. Have fun!I will be starting high school soon, is there any advice on it, about guys, things that go on?
KNOW THYSELF!
That鈥檚 the best thing you can do. As long as you know who you are, what you want, need, and desire, you鈥檒l make it through alright. Be comfortable with yourself and DON鈥橳 change.
And please, dear God, don鈥檛 let anyone pressure you into doing what you don鈥檛 want to do.
Yeah - wait on IT until you are grown up and ready for IT, otherwise IT may be a hell of a lot more than you bargained for
idk but im gonna be a freshman too!
Well being in high school, umm.. as a freshman, dont date a senior. They want one thing and that's sex. Also, high school is a lot more open to stuff like that than junior high so prepare for the worst and hope for best.
when i started high school nothing changed i still felt the same and hated school more %26amp; more each day! IM GOING TO BE A JUNIOR THIS YR. thank god!
Here's my advice. Don't get drunk at parties, and stay off of pills and other drugs. CHOOSE YOU FRIENDS WISELY. If there aren't any who are worthy, then stick to yourself. Have fun!I will be starting high school soon, is there any advice on it, about guys, things that go on?
KNOW THYSELF!
That鈥檚 the best thing you can do. As long as you know who you are, what you want, need, and desire, you鈥檒l make it through alright. Be comfortable with yourself and DON鈥橳 change.
And please, dear God, don鈥檛 let anyone pressure you into doing what you don鈥檛 want to do.
Yeah - wait on IT until you are grown up and ready for IT, otherwise IT may be a hell of a lot more than you bargained for
idk but im gonna be a freshman too!
Well being in high school, umm.. as a freshman, dont date a senior. They want one thing and that's sex. Also, high school is a lot more open to stuff like that than junior high so prepare for the worst and hope for best.
when i started high school nothing changed i still felt the same and hated school more %26amp; more each day! IM GOING TO BE A JUNIOR THIS YR. thank god!
I am opening a child care center Need advice on Incorporating or going with LLC?
PLEASE HELP
I am planning on opening a LICENCED child care CENTER ';WITH A PARTNER';. I just need some advice on what is best for me to do. We are in Minnesota if that makes a difference.
';Should I incorporate or LLC???';
Also if anyone is a OWNER of a child care CENTER, please email me if you are ok with me asking you a few questions on how to go about everything (do's and don'ts)...
Thank You!!!!! :)I am opening a child care center Need advice on Incorporating or going with LLC?
The question between a corporation and an LLC is one best addressed through consultation with a competent attorney who believes in providing counseling to clients. In either case the organizing documents are VERY important.
Here's a quick overview. A corporation is an entity with shareholders. The owners receive stock in the corporation in exchange for investment. It is very important that your By-Laws are carefully drafted to address the rights of shareholders regarding investment, voting, dissolution, dividends, and changes in ownership. You also have tax issues. A corporation normally pays corporate income tax and must file IRS form 1120. If you meet the criteria (US citizens, under 75 shareholders, etc) then you can file an 'S' election. The S election allows pass through of income to the shareholders so that income is only taxed at the individual level. This reduces some taxation but still requires a corporate tax return, it's just filed on an 1120-S rather than regular 1120.
If you choose an LLC then the owners are members rather than shareholders. You need to be very careful about the Operating Agreement. The Operating Agreement spells out the rights and obligations of the members. You need to address ownership, investment, transfer of interest, and tax matters among other things. A multi-member LLC has an IRS default classification as a partnership. The LLC files a Partnership tax return but the income flows through to the members. You also have the option of filing an election to be treated as a corporation for tax purposes and filing corporate returns. If you make a corporate election then you also have the option to file the 'S' election again to be treated like an S corporation.
The big advantage with an S corporation is that it may allow some reduction in self-employment tax. This issue should be carefully addressed by working very closely with a CPA. Do not wait until the year end to have a CPA do tax work. Involve the CPA from the very beginning and have him moniter things closely.
Either form of entity should provide asset protection for the individual owners if properly managed. You need to make sure to follow company structure and truly treat it like a separate entity. Note that a corporation or LLC is person under law. It is a separate being and should not be treated like a personal account. It is very important to keep good records and regulary hold meetins of the company with proper minutes of the meeting.
In short, either corporation or LLC will do the job if properly drafted. The LLC offers more options and requires less formality but the differences are negligible. The most important part is having all company documents custom drafted by a knowledgeable attorney. You simply can not use form documents or fail to adopt proper agreements. The effects of these choices are astronomical. A few dollars now can save tens of thousand later if you do not properly take care of things. Absolutely get an attorney for you right now, have your partner get another attorney, and after the company is formed get a third attorney to represent the company and work with the accountant. This should be a collaborative project with real counseling on the issues.I am opening a child care center Need advice on Incorporating or going with LLC?
There are two aspects of your plan that I would consider unwise. They are ';with a partner'; and LLC . Neither of those are a good way for a small business to organize.
I am planning on opening a LICENCED child care CENTER ';WITH A PARTNER';. I just need some advice on what is best for me to do. We are in Minnesota if that makes a difference.
';Should I incorporate or LLC???';
Also if anyone is a OWNER of a child care CENTER, please email me if you are ok with me asking you a few questions on how to go about everything (do's and don'ts)...
Thank You!!!!! :)I am opening a child care center Need advice on Incorporating or going with LLC?
The question between a corporation and an LLC is one best addressed through consultation with a competent attorney who believes in providing counseling to clients. In either case the organizing documents are VERY important.
Here's a quick overview. A corporation is an entity with shareholders. The owners receive stock in the corporation in exchange for investment. It is very important that your By-Laws are carefully drafted to address the rights of shareholders regarding investment, voting, dissolution, dividends, and changes in ownership. You also have tax issues. A corporation normally pays corporate income tax and must file IRS form 1120. If you meet the criteria (US citizens, under 75 shareholders, etc) then you can file an 'S' election. The S election allows pass through of income to the shareholders so that income is only taxed at the individual level. This reduces some taxation but still requires a corporate tax return, it's just filed on an 1120-S rather than regular 1120.
If you choose an LLC then the owners are members rather than shareholders. You need to be very careful about the Operating Agreement. The Operating Agreement spells out the rights and obligations of the members. You need to address ownership, investment, transfer of interest, and tax matters among other things. A multi-member LLC has an IRS default classification as a partnership. The LLC files a Partnership tax return but the income flows through to the members. You also have the option of filing an election to be treated as a corporation for tax purposes and filing corporate returns. If you make a corporate election then you also have the option to file the 'S' election again to be treated like an S corporation.
The big advantage with an S corporation is that it may allow some reduction in self-employment tax. This issue should be carefully addressed by working very closely with a CPA. Do not wait until the year end to have a CPA do tax work. Involve the CPA from the very beginning and have him moniter things closely.
Either form of entity should provide asset protection for the individual owners if properly managed. You need to make sure to follow company structure and truly treat it like a separate entity. Note that a corporation or LLC is person under law. It is a separate being and should not be treated like a personal account. It is very important to keep good records and regulary hold meetins of the company with proper minutes of the meeting.
In short, either corporation or LLC will do the job if properly drafted. The LLC offers more options and requires less formality but the differences are negligible. The most important part is having all company documents custom drafted by a knowledgeable attorney. You simply can not use form documents or fail to adopt proper agreements. The effects of these choices are astronomical. A few dollars now can save tens of thousand later if you do not properly take care of things. Absolutely get an attorney for you right now, have your partner get another attorney, and after the company is formed get a third attorney to represent the company and work with the accountant. This should be a collaborative project with real counseling on the issues.I am opening a child care center Need advice on Incorporating or going with LLC?
There are two aspects of your plan that I would consider unwise. They are ';with a partner'; and LLC . Neither of those are a good way for a small business to organize.
Is a CPA responsible for giving bad advice on non-profit tax filings?
If a non-profit org should have been filing federal returns and should have filed for a tax exemption, but has a letter from a CPA saying it doesn't need to, will the CPA have to pay the fines that the IRS dishes out for failure to file?Is a CPA responsible for giving bad advice on non-profit tax filings?
You can ask the CPA to pay the penalties.
You can sue the CPA for negligence if he doesn't.
The non-profit should ask the IRS to waive the penalties.Is a CPA responsible for giving bad advice on non-profit tax filings?
Dear B: Most professionals have a dis claimer to not only protect their name but to inform people about the law and the fact that it changes from year to year. If the CPA informed you wrong and it was intentional I would think you need an attorney. If it was an honest mistake I think you are out of luck. The IRS will waive fines if you relied upon advice from an IRS agent and it was wrong but for a CPA I doubt it. Write a letter and ask.
This advice was prepared based on our understanding of the tax law in effect at the time it was written as it applies to the facts that you provided. Click on my profile to read more. Errol Quinn Enrolled Agent Master Tax Advisor
You can ask the CPA to pay the penalties.
You can sue the CPA for negligence if he doesn't.
The non-profit should ask the IRS to waive the penalties.Is a CPA responsible for giving bad advice on non-profit tax filings?
Dear B: Most professionals have a dis claimer to not only protect their name but to inform people about the law and the fact that it changes from year to year. If the CPA informed you wrong and it was intentional I would think you need an attorney. If it was an honest mistake I think you are out of luck. The IRS will waive fines if you relied upon advice from an IRS agent and it was wrong but for a CPA I doubt it. Write a letter and ask.
This advice was prepared based on our understanding of the tax law in effect at the time it was written as it applies to the facts that you provided. Click on my profile to read more. Errol Quinn Enrolled Agent Master Tax Advisor
Why is there so much lame fitness advice around?
Especially HERE. Most of the people who answer questions about working out have NO CLUE what they are talking about.
If you don't think that applies to YOU, then think again - it DOES.
Love JackWhy is there so much lame fitness advice around?
I say don't listen to anyone that can't back up their advice with some kind of REAL knowledge base. I invite everyone to go to acefitness.org and search me- (Lela Simon) you will find that I really AM a certified PT...not just a dumb broad with a subscription to Exercise RX! :)Why is there so much lame fitness advice around?
I half agree with you. I'll admit, sometimes I'd like to think I know what I'm talking about, but it's simple things, like
-diets don't work; you can't cut out food groups
-one must exercise and pay attention to portions
What I don't know I'll look up on the internet, although I know it's not always right. I'm transferring schools next year to study nutrition, so of course I'd like to see if I can help others.
I personally get annoyed when there are teens asking/answering questions such as
-how to lose weight quickly
-how to lose weight from one body part
-what diet pills work the most
-if they're pregnant
And if they get an answer they don't want to hear but might be the right answer, someone will give it a thumbs down.
Or just questions that no one but their own doctor should know the answer too.
Slightly off topic.. my personal favorite is if you go to the math/science section there are always kids posting their homework questions!
dude, 80% of the people on yahoo answers are teenagers in high school!!!
what kind of advice do you think they will give each other!
i stick to the bird section, where i help 12yr olds who's parents get them a budgie and then refuse to drive the bird to a vet (grr, some way to teach responsiblity! force a kid to watch a bird die!), and when i'm really bored, i visit some of the social (oppinion/ personal problem sections). i have never aksed for or given fitness advice.
if i wanted REAL info about anything i'd google it! i'd not ask here!
the only think i can think of asking people here seriously is ';i'm in such-n-such place in my life at now, what should i do'; because that's the one thiing humans are better at than google. i'd also put in my question ';adults only!'; if it was a question about jobs or careers or marriage or something kids don't know anything about.
question is -- why do you think you can get good advice from 12-to16 yr olds and why do you think complaining about it will do any good?
u want fitness advice? use GOOGLE.
Hi Love Jack
I think in general there is so much lame advice in fitness due to liability and litigation
Everyone is scaredy cat about getting sued
Love ME :)
Your name is Jack and you're annoyed about 'jacked-up'; advice? heheheh
I figure if you can help one person. Why not. If you don't like the site, don't go there.
lol idk.
If you don't think that applies to YOU, then think again - it DOES.
Love JackWhy is there so much lame fitness advice around?
I say don't listen to anyone that can't back up their advice with some kind of REAL knowledge base. I invite everyone to go to acefitness.org and search me- (Lela Simon) you will find that I really AM a certified PT...not just a dumb broad with a subscription to Exercise RX! :)Why is there so much lame fitness advice around?
I half agree with you. I'll admit, sometimes I'd like to think I know what I'm talking about, but it's simple things, like
-diets don't work; you can't cut out food groups
-one must exercise and pay attention to portions
What I don't know I'll look up on the internet, although I know it's not always right. I'm transferring schools next year to study nutrition, so of course I'd like to see if I can help others.
I personally get annoyed when there are teens asking/answering questions such as
-how to lose weight quickly
-how to lose weight from one body part
-what diet pills work the most
-if they're pregnant
And if they get an answer they don't want to hear but might be the right answer, someone will give it a thumbs down.
Or just questions that no one but their own doctor should know the answer too.
Slightly off topic.. my personal favorite is if you go to the math/science section there are always kids posting their homework questions!
dude, 80% of the people on yahoo answers are teenagers in high school!!!
what kind of advice do you think they will give each other!
i stick to the bird section, where i help 12yr olds who's parents get them a budgie and then refuse to drive the bird to a vet (grr, some way to teach responsiblity! force a kid to watch a bird die!), and when i'm really bored, i visit some of the social (oppinion/ personal problem sections). i have never aksed for or given fitness advice.
if i wanted REAL info about anything i'd google it! i'd not ask here!
the only think i can think of asking people here seriously is ';i'm in such-n-such place in my life at now, what should i do'; because that's the one thiing humans are better at than google. i'd also put in my question ';adults only!'; if it was a question about jobs or careers or marriage or something kids don't know anything about.
question is -- why do you think you can get good advice from 12-to16 yr olds and why do you think complaining about it will do any good?
u want fitness advice? use GOOGLE.
Hi Love Jack
I think in general there is so much lame advice in fitness due to liability and litigation
Everyone is scaredy cat about getting sued
Love ME :)
Your name is Jack and you're annoyed about 'jacked-up'; advice? heheheh
I figure if you can help one person. Why not. If you don't like the site, don't go there.
lol idk.
He's 19 months old and driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!ADVICE WOULD BE GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
My son is almost 2 years old, He cries all the time, fall out and want things his way and no other wayand He wants me to carry him all day long. (I really think he's afraid of people outside of the ones he know). I'm so tired of people negative comments, but sometimes I do feel that I cannot control him. Today he was extremly out of order and I spaked his hand(not hard) then he became frightened. I have tried time out. And now I am at the point whereas I am scared to have him out in public unless I am holding him, because I do want the attention on myself and my child. Please keep any negative comments to yourself, I have heard enought of that. I need someone who can share advice and contructive critisism along with experience. Thank you so very much in advance. I appreciate you.He's 19 months old and driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!ADVICE WOULD BE GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Okay, sweetie now you need to honestly stop being a push over because aww hes so cute. You may think these comments will be negative because it pertains to your parenting skills. Trust me I know! My daughter is now 3 and for awhile you just say aww and you feel bad when you have to discipline them. You need to nip it in the bud hun before hes too old! Okay so heres what you need to do. If you think you can get past it without it then I feel bad for you because the worse thing is to be embarrased in public.
1st- practice discipline at home. this is where it starts. as bad as it may sound. HE NEEDS TO FEAR WHAT YOU WILL DO IF HE DOESNT OBEY. (i am not suggesting abuse because thats ridiculous). what I mean is you need to show him you are the boss and he is the baby. yes he will test you because thats what kids do
2nd- as someone stated previously let him cry. not only just let him cry do not show any emotion that is negative or sad or any reaction. for example he gets mad jumps his little butt on the floor screaming saying he wants ice cream. you say i said NO if you wanna cry fine cry by yourself. AND LEAVE HIM RIGHT THERE. after awhile he will start to think man this doesn't work. children are sponges they soak up all they can and they are testy little creatures.
3rd- take things from him. example lets see...back to the ice cream. he jumps down screaming about something you say if you dont stop that right now you will not get your ice cream and i will take it and give it to a good little boy. dont you want to be mommies good little boy? he will start thinking a couple things...1 oh no mommy will find another baby? and also please dont take my ice cream.
i use these thing on my daughter when i saw that being nice to a 2 year old isnt always the answer. we have to put our foots down and take charge before they take charge of us and then its not cute!
Its really hard to listen to people and for them to criticize your parenting skills but sometimes we need to listen to it. (everyone isnt always right because you have to experience certain things in order to give advice)
I have experienced it and the first time my daughter embarrassed me was the last.
Also try to the 1 2 3 method.....i never get past 2 really.
make there be a consequence if you get past 3... honestly spanking!!1 spank his little hand or bottom never anything else. but it triggers his little brain saying man if mom gets to 3 it will hurt.
Hope this helps..
Good Luck and what happens from this point on is all in your hands... You can either be proud of your baby in public or ashamed!!!He's 19 months old and driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!ADVICE WOULD BE GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Your welcome. I hope it helps! Good Luck Hun. :)
Ever hear of Terrible Two's? Just be patient. He'll outgrow this behavior, but you do have to be firm about disipline. That doesn't necessarily mean spanking, but the time out is a good one. It'll work eventually. Don't take him out into public if you don't need to. Good luck. I know, this is really frustrating to you. I've been there, but before you know it, he'll be grown up and moving out and then you'll miss his temper tantrums.LOL. You really will!!
First of all I am really sorry about your situation. It sounds rough. Second, as hard as it is, my advice to you is to just let him cry when he acts that way. In my opinion, he has learned that crying is how he gets his own way. If you quit responding to it, then he will learn that it isn't going to work and he will eventually stop. He has to learn that you are the boss, not him. Even if you are in the middle of the grocery store, just let him cry. I know it will be embarassing but anybody with kids will understand. Just tell him you love him but you are not going to carry him. Of course it is okay for him to cry when something is really wrong and then he should be held, but not when he is throwing a tantrum just for the sake of being held. He senses your frustration and your desire to do anything to get him to quit crying in public, and he uses that to get his own way. 2 year olds are very smart! Don't let him sense your frustation because that is just engaging him more into the drama. Keep your cool, show him you are in control of the situation, and this should get better with time.
This is easy. I have 3 and I am the BOSS!!! I know this is hard but you have to strike a certain fear in your children, or they WILL run over you and drive you crazy..my children were/ are well behaved because they KNEW that I was NOT playing with them. I ment what I said and said what I ment. I also joked and played alot so that they would know the difference.
I am going through the same thing right now with my son who just turned 2.I think it is a phase they go through???I try to limit his sugar and caffine intake and that seems to help some.Just hang in there you can get through this.As for all the negative commenst from people, you just have to ignore them and don't let them get to you.Good luck:)
Keep trying the time outs..and hang in there,,,if he is afraid of people and public places do your best to leave him at home when you want to get out try taking him to a park he will be able to get to know other kids...
I know it's tough-I have an 18 month old and he is learning to test the boundries. I feel it's also time he really learned what ';no'; is- because he hits and pinches to express himself, so I smack his hand (not hard, like you) and let him see in my face that I am serious. he is old enough to learn discipline like yours, and like the person above me said, show them who is boss.
Too many parents end up with the kid controlling the parent instead of the other way around just because they are fearful...
i agree with the person above me ....when i was younger i was the same way and i would just cry when i wanted somthing and i learned that it was the way to get what i want but when my parents started ignoring it i knew that it wasnt going to work anymore
I understand your frustration. I have worked with kids for 10 years and have a two year old myself! Different things work for different kids. It sounds like he's having some trouble expressing himself. Toddlers get very overwhelmed with their feelings and don't know what to do with them. Help him vocalize his feelings--communication is also new to them! You want to teach good problem solving skills and right now he's throwing fits to get his way and it's working. Try getting down on his level and talking to him. ';Are you scared?'; and teach him to say ';I'm scared'; Once he can vocalize his feelings you can then begin to help him through it. If he has a comfort stuffed animal or blankie maybe he could hold that instead of holding you....you may have to try several things but whatever you do stay consistant and loving!cartridge remedies blackheads
Okay, sweetie now you need to honestly stop being a push over because aww hes so cute. You may think these comments will be negative because it pertains to your parenting skills. Trust me I know! My daughter is now 3 and for awhile you just say aww and you feel bad when you have to discipline them. You need to nip it in the bud hun before hes too old! Okay so heres what you need to do. If you think you can get past it without it then I feel bad for you because the worse thing is to be embarrased in public.
1st- practice discipline at home. this is where it starts. as bad as it may sound. HE NEEDS TO FEAR WHAT YOU WILL DO IF HE DOESNT OBEY. (i am not suggesting abuse because thats ridiculous). what I mean is you need to show him you are the boss and he is the baby. yes he will test you because thats what kids do
2nd- as someone stated previously let him cry. not only just let him cry do not show any emotion that is negative or sad or any reaction. for example he gets mad jumps his little butt on the floor screaming saying he wants ice cream. you say i said NO if you wanna cry fine cry by yourself. AND LEAVE HIM RIGHT THERE. after awhile he will start to think man this doesn't work. children are sponges they soak up all they can and they are testy little creatures.
3rd- take things from him. example lets see...back to the ice cream. he jumps down screaming about something you say if you dont stop that right now you will not get your ice cream and i will take it and give it to a good little boy. dont you want to be mommies good little boy? he will start thinking a couple things...1 oh no mommy will find another baby? and also please dont take my ice cream.
i use these thing on my daughter when i saw that being nice to a 2 year old isnt always the answer. we have to put our foots down and take charge before they take charge of us and then its not cute!
Its really hard to listen to people and for them to criticize your parenting skills but sometimes we need to listen to it. (everyone isnt always right because you have to experience certain things in order to give advice)
I have experienced it and the first time my daughter embarrassed me was the last.
Also try to the 1 2 3 method.....i never get past 2 really.
make there be a consequence if you get past 3... honestly spanking!!1 spank his little hand or bottom never anything else. but it triggers his little brain saying man if mom gets to 3 it will hurt.
Hope this helps..
Good Luck and what happens from this point on is all in your hands... You can either be proud of your baby in public or ashamed!!!He's 19 months old and driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!ADVICE WOULD BE GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Your welcome. I hope it helps! Good Luck Hun. :)
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Ever hear of Terrible Two's? Just be patient. He'll outgrow this behavior, but you do have to be firm about disipline. That doesn't necessarily mean spanking, but the time out is a good one. It'll work eventually. Don't take him out into public if you don't need to. Good luck. I know, this is really frustrating to you. I've been there, but before you know it, he'll be grown up and moving out and then you'll miss his temper tantrums.LOL. You really will!!
First of all I am really sorry about your situation. It sounds rough. Second, as hard as it is, my advice to you is to just let him cry when he acts that way. In my opinion, he has learned that crying is how he gets his own way. If you quit responding to it, then he will learn that it isn't going to work and he will eventually stop. He has to learn that you are the boss, not him. Even if you are in the middle of the grocery store, just let him cry. I know it will be embarassing but anybody with kids will understand. Just tell him you love him but you are not going to carry him. Of course it is okay for him to cry when something is really wrong and then he should be held, but not when he is throwing a tantrum just for the sake of being held. He senses your frustration and your desire to do anything to get him to quit crying in public, and he uses that to get his own way. 2 year olds are very smart! Don't let him sense your frustation because that is just engaging him more into the drama. Keep your cool, show him you are in control of the situation, and this should get better with time.
This is easy. I have 3 and I am the BOSS!!! I know this is hard but you have to strike a certain fear in your children, or they WILL run over you and drive you crazy..my children were/ are well behaved because they KNEW that I was NOT playing with them. I ment what I said and said what I ment. I also joked and played alot so that they would know the difference.
I am going through the same thing right now with my son who just turned 2.I think it is a phase they go through???I try to limit his sugar and caffine intake and that seems to help some.Just hang in there you can get through this.As for all the negative commenst from people, you just have to ignore them and don't let them get to you.Good luck:)
Keep trying the time outs..and hang in there,,,if he is afraid of people and public places do your best to leave him at home when you want to get out try taking him to a park he will be able to get to know other kids...
I know it's tough-I have an 18 month old and he is learning to test the boundries. I feel it's also time he really learned what ';no'; is- because he hits and pinches to express himself, so I smack his hand (not hard, like you) and let him see in my face that I am serious. he is old enough to learn discipline like yours, and like the person above me said, show them who is boss.
Too many parents end up with the kid controlling the parent instead of the other way around just because they are fearful...
i agree with the person above me ....when i was younger i was the same way and i would just cry when i wanted somthing and i learned that it was the way to get what i want but when my parents started ignoring it i knew that it wasnt going to work anymore
I understand your frustration. I have worked with kids for 10 years and have a two year old myself! Different things work for different kids. It sounds like he's having some trouble expressing himself. Toddlers get very overwhelmed with their feelings and don't know what to do with them. Help him vocalize his feelings--communication is also new to them! You want to teach good problem solving skills and right now he's throwing fits to get his way and it's working. Try getting down on his level and talking to him. ';Are you scared?'; and teach him to say ';I'm scared'; Once he can vocalize his feelings you can then begin to help him through it. If he has a comfort stuffed animal or blankie maybe he could hold that instead of holding you....you may have to try several things but whatever you do stay consistant and loving!
Advice on which camera handphone to buy & which megapixle is better?
I am a student who wanted to buy a camera handphone which has the basics of calling %26amp; smsing %26amp; a pretty clear camera, but cheap. The rest of the functions are not so impt. So, any advice, or any personal handphones to recommand me?
I had checked out the singtel webby, but the info are too hard for me to understand.Advice on which camera handphone to buy %26amp; which megapixle is better?
If for you price is not a problem, get a Nokia's N95. It has 5-megapixle camera. This is the best camera handphone at this moment. It is also user-friendly. But sometimes it will hang as it operated on symbian.
The Sony Ericsson latest phone W880i is another worth consider choice. It is slim and it has 2-megapixle camera. The price is also steeper than other same resolution camera phone.
The Nokia 6288 would have a reasonable price and it has a 2-megapixle camera. This nokia phone would not hang easily as it is operating on Nokia Series 40 platform.
The Sony Ericsson k800i is also another phone that is worth your money. It feature a 3.2-megapixle camera. But one problem is the phone has been is a market for a period of time already.
Hope the above information helps you in nuying your phone!Advice on which camera handphone to buy %26amp; which megapixle is better?
y dont u try http://www.gsmarena.com u can enter ur requirements and there u go u get the right choice!!
Get the Slimist mobile phone it's cheap with a Great Cam and very nice one,, it's from Samsung.
That depends on your current cellphone provider/carrier like T-Mobile, Cingluar or whatever.... check this website http://www.letstalk.com... They have good offers ;)
I had checked out the singtel webby, but the info are too hard for me to understand.Advice on which camera handphone to buy %26amp; which megapixle is better?
If for you price is not a problem, get a Nokia's N95. It has 5-megapixle camera. This is the best camera handphone at this moment. It is also user-friendly. But sometimes it will hang as it operated on symbian.
The Sony Ericsson latest phone W880i is another worth consider choice. It is slim and it has 2-megapixle camera. The price is also steeper than other same resolution camera phone.
The Nokia 6288 would have a reasonable price and it has a 2-megapixle camera. This nokia phone would not hang easily as it is operating on Nokia Series 40 platform.
The Sony Ericsson k800i is also another phone that is worth your money. It feature a 3.2-megapixle camera. But one problem is the phone has been is a market for a period of time already.
Hope the above information helps you in nuying your phone!Advice on which camera handphone to buy %26amp; which megapixle is better?
y dont u try http://www.gsmarena.com u can enter ur requirements and there u go u get the right choice!!
Get the Slimist mobile phone it's cheap with a Great Cam and very nice one,, it's from Samsung.
That depends on your current cellphone provider/carrier like T-Mobile, Cingluar or whatever.... check this website http://www.letstalk.com... They have good offers ;)
Type1 diabetec; now that I am on insulin; I need to lose 10 lbs, any advice?
I am at the heaviest weight of my life now that I am on insulin!!!
I need to lose 10lbs. Any advice on how to lose the extra weight?Type1 diabetec; now that I am on insulin; I need to lose 10 lbs, any advice?
see a diabetic educator or a nutritionist.Type1 diabetec; now that I am on insulin; I need to lose 10 lbs, any advice?
exercise
A very tight food plan and more exercise!!!
go to bookstore for Dr Bernstein's book. You can read parts of it here:
http://www.diabetes-book.com/readit.shtm鈥?/a>
He has some excellent ideas on controlling carbs and weight and insulins!!
You do realize that you cannot just eat as much carb as you want and cover it with insulins without gaining weight, don't you?
You would need to go over any weight loss plan with your endocrinologist and/or dietician. That said, a few things have helped me keep my weight where I want it. Any extra exercise you can work into your day helps; I started taking the stairs every day to my fourth floor office, and it has helped tone my body, as well as improving my overall cardiovascular health. Drinking plenty of water is always a plus, and spreading small meals out (or having snacks between somewhat smaller meals) also helps. Remember that the health is the most important focus for you, so running plans past your doctor(s) is critical.
Sticking to a low carb diet and reducing your insulin so that you aren't low all the time. My body responds the very best when I cut out carbs almost completely and the weight just falls off. Don't be stupid about it and replace the carbs with a bunch of meat. Balance out your diet and make sure to eat plenty of vegetable. The most important thing not to have is bread, pizza, pasta, etc. Also, as a diabetic you'll probably really benefit from some cardio workouts. Make sure to eat plenty before you begin and have a snack and juice on hand in case of emergency. Insulin is the worst thing for making you gain weight. When I began it I gained about 12 lbs in a week (I needed it then, but now that I don't I hate the way it keeps me chunky). I find that doing a lot of walking is really helpful in slimming me down without the worry of too many severe lows. I used to walk all over my campus to classes and could fit into pants from high school. Walking is definitely great for toning and melting off the pounds (if you can do enough) but you will probably need to reduce your overall insulin for the day.
make an appointment with your doctor to rule out a medical cause for the weight gain.
I need to lose 10lbs. Any advice on how to lose the extra weight?Type1 diabetec; now that I am on insulin; I need to lose 10 lbs, any advice?
see a diabetic educator or a nutritionist.Type1 diabetec; now that I am on insulin; I need to lose 10 lbs, any advice?
exercise
A very tight food plan and more exercise!!!
go to bookstore for Dr Bernstein's book. You can read parts of it here:
http://www.diabetes-book.com/readit.shtm鈥?/a>
He has some excellent ideas on controlling carbs and weight and insulins!!
You do realize that you cannot just eat as much carb as you want and cover it with insulins without gaining weight, don't you?
You would need to go over any weight loss plan with your endocrinologist and/or dietician. That said, a few things have helped me keep my weight where I want it. Any extra exercise you can work into your day helps; I started taking the stairs every day to my fourth floor office, and it has helped tone my body, as well as improving my overall cardiovascular health. Drinking plenty of water is always a plus, and spreading small meals out (or having snacks between somewhat smaller meals) also helps. Remember that the health is the most important focus for you, so running plans past your doctor(s) is critical.
Sticking to a low carb diet and reducing your insulin so that you aren't low all the time. My body responds the very best when I cut out carbs almost completely and the weight just falls off. Don't be stupid about it and replace the carbs with a bunch of meat. Balance out your diet and make sure to eat plenty of vegetable. The most important thing not to have is bread, pizza, pasta, etc. Also, as a diabetic you'll probably really benefit from some cardio workouts. Make sure to eat plenty before you begin and have a snack and juice on hand in case of emergency. Insulin is the worst thing for making you gain weight. When I began it I gained about 12 lbs in a week (I needed it then, but now that I don't I hate the way it keeps me chunky). I find that doing a lot of walking is really helpful in slimming me down without the worry of too many severe lows. I used to walk all over my campus to classes and could fit into pants from high school. Walking is definitely great for toning and melting off the pounds (if you can do enough) but you will probably need to reduce your overall insulin for the day.
make an appointment with your doctor to rule out a medical cause for the weight gain.
Who among of u want to be friend of me?? i need sum1 to talked.. and give some advice by email..?
..i need it.. plzz...Who among of u want to be friend of me?? i need sum1 to talked.. and give some advice by email..?
add me up...Who among of u want to be friend of me?? i need sum1 to talked.. and give some advice by email..?
sure darlin
darkangel.foru@yahoo.com
ill befriend you =D
i'll be your friend, i like to give advice.
add me up...Who among of u want to be friend of me?? i need sum1 to talked.. and give some advice by email..?
sure darlin
darkangel.foru@yahoo.com
ill befriend you =D
i'll be your friend, i like to give advice.
After pregnancy advice, could it be UTI or did doc do something wrong???
I just had my daughter on July 11th and had alot of painful pressure and not normal bleeding, my baby was 8 lbs 8.9 ounces and I had what they call the star tear not just going in one direction so there was alot of stitching, because of the constant pain I went back to the same doctor a week later and found out alot of that pressure was from a gauze pad he had left inside of me which when removed took off alot of the pressure and he just gave me Vicodin for the pain. A day later I kept feeling a strong painful urge to urinate and couldnt go but maybe a tiny bit at a time so I had my husband get me some cranberry juice and the next day I could go but it hurt extremely bad, since then I have had such bad vaginal pain that it hurts to the touch or when I am sitting down, could this be effects from the gauze being left inside of me or is this UTI symptoms? I would appreciate any advice on the subject, I really need some relief both physically and mentally. Thanks to anyone who replies.After pregnancy advice, could it be UTI or did doc do something wrong???
I also had a 9 lb boy (large boned and head the size of 10-12 lb baby) and tore really bad, the dr. quit counting stitches at 100and it took him an hr to sew me up, and I had the pressure and pain and bled forever.It hurt to just stand and felt like everything was going to fall out! The dr. had said I was having a small baby while I was in the labor room! The pressure and pain lasted for mo. I was young (17)and dumb and thought it was just from having a baby. I had moved to a dif. state and had a dif. dr. When my son was 1 1/2 I went back home to my reg dr. and he said I still had tears in my uterus that hadn't healed. He cauterized them right then and I got better in a few wks. I had been having long painful periods with heavy bleeding and had no energy because of it. Please go to a different dr and get ckd. Yes the gauze could have caused the uti and those are painful also. I hope you are better soon and can enjoy your new little one!After pregnancy advice, could it be UTI or did doc do something wrong???
Yes, that is most likely a UTI. The gauze left inside possibly got infected and created a bacterial infection.
I might try another OB/GYN. Leaving the gauze in is highlly unprofessional and dangerous.
I think u need to find another doctor and have a check up done because that doesnt sound like a UTI to me.
Does it burn to pee or does it burn where the stitches are. When my first child was born, it burned for 3 weeks where the stitches were. My doctor gave ms some spray that relived it. Call your and see what your doctor thinks. It could be something else. Good luck
i don't know that the guaze left behind could cause a UTI, but what your are describing certainly sounds like a UTI....i'd head back to the Dr.....just to make sure
The tear could cause the discomfort when sitting. I personally would not have an OBGYN that thinks tearing is better than a controled cut. Also leaving gauze in you doesn't sound all that responsible either. Maybe you should go to an urgent care and get checked out . As for the other symptoms a UTI may be to blame esp. with the knowledge he left things behind that probably became unsanitary and spread bacteria to your urinary tract. Go see another doctor at an urgent care facility ASAP. At this point I would be a little concerned that he may be trying to cover his own tracks with mistakes he made rather than be honest about what is wrong with your recovery. Good luck. PS Are you using sits bath it really helps , as does the inflatable ring you sit on.
Sorry to hear you are having such a difficult time, but congratulations on becoming a mom.
It sounds as if you could have an UTI, especially since the Doc left a gauze pad inside of you. I would suggest that you make an appointment with an urologist or have your primary care physician do a urine culture. If this is clear then I would see a different Ob/gyn for an additional check-up.
Good luck and I hope you are feeling better soon.
go to the er now . and find a lawyer and sue that doctor. did you keep the proof of the gauze being left in you if not get it. you probably have a very bad infection go to the er now
It could be septis which can be fatal. This is a serious infection. My friend ended up in a comma for over a month due to it after her daughters birth. She had seven surgeries from this %26amp; lost 6 inches of her bowel and had seven drains sticking out of her body to remove the seeping infections. Keep track of your temp. If you have even a slight fever get to the ER.
Dont take this lightly.
Call your doctor... or another doctor... you need treatment either way
I would go to the EMERGENCY ROOM IMMEDIATELY!
go to the emergency room. you need treatment now.
My question to you would be... Is the pain inside or outside? Try to figure out which it is. If it's inside, you need to see another doctor. If it's outside, it could be from the swelling and the stitches because of the trauma you had during child birth. If this is the case, try sitting in a tub of warm water and urinating. If your're really miserable, you won't even think this sounds grose!! LOL! If this eases the pain, just do this, and the warm soaks will also ease the pain through the day. If this isn't effective, call the doctor. You probably have an infection. Call sooner than later! Now GO GET IN THAT TUB! LOL!
wow, i have heard of that before where dr's leave the gause in, that can be very dangerous. since you are still having bad pains and pressure, i would recomend going to see either the same dr, if you still trust him, or another one and get a second opinion. best of luck! and congrats on the new baby!
I was torn like that after both of my children and I was in a large amount of pain like that. When the stitches started to heal I felt much better. It sound like you should maybe call the doctor anyway and tell him what is going on because it may be something else. Good luck!!
i would go to the doctor asap.
Sounds like a UTI. Could be an infection from the gauze. After I had my first child, I got very sick, sore, it was just aweful. I went to the doctor and I had an infection in my womb because it didn't close like it was suppose to. I really feel you go back to your doctor and talk to him about your pain because my doctor told me that if I hadn't come in when I did the infection would spread and I could have died.
basically you've had an episiotomy...i also had one.. but not painfull
just relax as much as possible..dont worry about not going..
its going to be painfull until your fully healed..usually in 2-3 weeks.
prince lionheart makes a Pillow for sitting on after you've had an episiotomy... it may make things a bit more comfortable.
i doubt you have a UTI...your bodys just trying to get back to normal after pregnancy and birth..
get an ENEMA to keep the area clean..also the hospital gave me tucks pads to relieve discomfort.
I also had a 9 lb boy (large boned and head the size of 10-12 lb baby) and tore really bad, the dr. quit counting stitches at 100and it took him an hr to sew me up, and I had the pressure and pain and bled forever.It hurt to just stand and felt like everything was going to fall out! The dr. had said I was having a small baby while I was in the labor room! The pressure and pain lasted for mo. I was young (17)and dumb and thought it was just from having a baby. I had moved to a dif. state and had a dif. dr. When my son was 1 1/2 I went back home to my reg dr. and he said I still had tears in my uterus that hadn't healed. He cauterized them right then and I got better in a few wks. I had been having long painful periods with heavy bleeding and had no energy because of it. Please go to a different dr and get ckd. Yes the gauze could have caused the uti and those are painful also. I hope you are better soon and can enjoy your new little one!After pregnancy advice, could it be UTI or did doc do something wrong???
Yes, that is most likely a UTI. The gauze left inside possibly got infected and created a bacterial infection.
I might try another OB/GYN. Leaving the gauze in is highlly unprofessional and dangerous.
I think u need to find another doctor and have a check up done because that doesnt sound like a UTI to me.
Does it burn to pee or does it burn where the stitches are. When my first child was born, it burned for 3 weeks where the stitches were. My doctor gave ms some spray that relived it. Call your and see what your doctor thinks. It could be something else. Good luck
i don't know that the guaze left behind could cause a UTI, but what your are describing certainly sounds like a UTI....i'd head back to the Dr.....just to make sure
The tear could cause the discomfort when sitting. I personally would not have an OBGYN that thinks tearing is better than a controled cut. Also leaving gauze in you doesn't sound all that responsible either. Maybe you should go to an urgent care and get checked out . As for the other symptoms a UTI may be to blame esp. with the knowledge he left things behind that probably became unsanitary and spread bacteria to your urinary tract. Go see another doctor at an urgent care facility ASAP. At this point I would be a little concerned that he may be trying to cover his own tracks with mistakes he made rather than be honest about what is wrong with your recovery. Good luck. PS Are you using sits bath it really helps , as does the inflatable ring you sit on.
Sorry to hear you are having such a difficult time, but congratulations on becoming a mom.
It sounds as if you could have an UTI, especially since the Doc left a gauze pad inside of you. I would suggest that you make an appointment with an urologist or have your primary care physician do a urine culture. If this is clear then I would see a different Ob/gyn for an additional check-up.
Good luck and I hope you are feeling better soon.
go to the er now . and find a lawyer and sue that doctor. did you keep the proof of the gauze being left in you if not get it. you probably have a very bad infection go to the er now
It could be septis which can be fatal. This is a serious infection. My friend ended up in a comma for over a month due to it after her daughters birth. She had seven surgeries from this %26amp; lost 6 inches of her bowel and had seven drains sticking out of her body to remove the seeping infections. Keep track of your temp. If you have even a slight fever get to the ER.
Dont take this lightly.
Call your doctor... or another doctor... you need treatment either way
I would go to the EMERGENCY ROOM IMMEDIATELY!
go to the emergency room. you need treatment now.
My question to you would be... Is the pain inside or outside? Try to figure out which it is. If it's inside, you need to see another doctor. If it's outside, it could be from the swelling and the stitches because of the trauma you had during child birth. If this is the case, try sitting in a tub of warm water and urinating. If your're really miserable, you won't even think this sounds grose!! LOL! If this eases the pain, just do this, and the warm soaks will also ease the pain through the day. If this isn't effective, call the doctor. You probably have an infection. Call sooner than later! Now GO GET IN THAT TUB! LOL!
wow, i have heard of that before where dr's leave the gause in, that can be very dangerous. since you are still having bad pains and pressure, i would recomend going to see either the same dr, if you still trust him, or another one and get a second opinion. best of luck! and congrats on the new baby!
I was torn like that after both of my children and I was in a large amount of pain like that. When the stitches started to heal I felt much better. It sound like you should maybe call the doctor anyway and tell him what is going on because it may be something else. Good luck!!
i would go to the doctor asap.
Sounds like a UTI. Could be an infection from the gauze. After I had my first child, I got very sick, sore, it was just aweful. I went to the doctor and I had an infection in my womb because it didn't close like it was suppose to. I really feel you go back to your doctor and talk to him about your pain because my doctor told me that if I hadn't come in when I did the infection would spread and I could have died.
basically you've had an episiotomy...i also had one.. but not painfull
just relax as much as possible..dont worry about not going..
its going to be painfull until your fully healed..usually in 2-3 weeks.
prince lionheart makes a Pillow for sitting on after you've had an episiotomy... it may make things a bit more comfortable.
i doubt you have a UTI...your bodys just trying to get back to normal after pregnancy and birth..
get an ENEMA to keep the area clean..also the hospital gave me tucks pads to relieve discomfort.
I need advice i just got over a divorse and i want to be with someone else but its hard?
i am a mother of 3 little ones and i am afraid of what my ex h maight do if he faind out iam dathing some one but he is the past and i dont know if there is any great guy that will want to date me i am not old or to youngill be 22 this month so if any advise please let me know.I need advice i just got over a divorse and i want to be with someone else but its hard?
Don't rush into anything. It might be hard for you to get back into the dating since you have been out of it for awhile. Just take it slow easing make into the dating scene. I am sure there is someone out there who you will find when the time is right. This guy will be one who loves you for you and your little ones too. He will love spending time with the 4 of you any time he can. There are guys out there like this but you can't find them yourself. Just let them find you. Don't get frustated if it takes some time but don't go searching for him because then you will start doubting yourself and hurt your self esteem. Hope this helps you out.I need advice i just got over a divorse and i want to be with someone else but its hard?
Try online dating!
Don't rush into anything. It might be hard for you to get back into the dating since you have been out of it for awhile. Just take it slow easing make into the dating scene. I am sure there is someone out there who you will find when the time is right. This guy will be one who loves you for you and your little ones too. He will love spending time with the 4 of you any time he can. There are guys out there like this but you can't find them yourself. Just let them find you. Don't get frustated if it takes some time but don't go searching for him because then you will start doubting yourself and hurt your self esteem. Hope this helps you out.I need advice i just got over a divorse and i want to be with someone else but its hard?
Try online dating!
I have a 2 yr old son who is driving me crazy. He climbs out of his carseat, wont sit in a buggy. Any advice?
He constantly whines or yells. He doesn't listen. He is a very sweet child but I am not doing something right. Please help!I have a 2 yr old son who is driving me crazy. He climbs out of his carseat, wont sit in a buggy. Any advice?
I agree with Sarah! she's absolutely right. it's so easy to forget about the praise when they're constantly behaving badly but praise even the smallest things that he does that are good. he'll love the attention.
one more thing that is important is to be consistent. if you've said he is being punished for something stick to it. don't reward him when he stops doing that thing. so say he's been screaming for whatever reason and you've said ';stop screaming or...';. if he doesn't stop screaming, punish him.or if he does stop screaming at some later stage, still punish him. it sounds harsh but they soon figure out to use it to their advantage.
that has been the hardest thing for me but i found that if i didn't say what i was going to do, then he use that to his advantage. when doing that though it's very important not to say things you're not actually going to do!!I have a 2 yr old son who is driving me crazy. He climbs out of his carseat, wont sit in a buggy. Any advice?
Try to distract him by putting toys he likes in the car or buggy with him to play with. Sit him in the car seat or buggy then hand him the toy and talk to him about it/show it to him (get him interested/distracted).
When he's playing with it, plug his seat belt in. Try not to make a fuss if he starts to make a fuss, just stay calm and neutral and carry on plugging him in. If you react to his fussy behaviour you are giving him attention which he could view as positive, if you ignore the behaviour he is not getting any emotion from you, so the idea is that he'll eventually give up.
If you plug him in without him making any fuss, give him loads of praise and attention (maybe a sticker or and activity he enjoys doing as a reward). You need to give him loads of attention for good behaviour and no attention for fussy behaviour.
Hope this helps!
First get a quality car seat that is child proof.
Second, does he do this all the time? He may have a behavioral issue that needs medical attention... Sorry to jump to the end of the spectrum here but you CAN'T rule it out on your own. A few trips to the doctor could ease your mind and then you can concentrate on giving him the attention he needs or distracting him so he learns to play on his own.
Just the age. But you do mention sitting in a carseat or buggy. These are very inactive activities for a child. Take him to a park and wear him out before taking him on a stroll. He probably just has some pent up energy.cartridge remedies blackheads
I agree with Sarah! she's absolutely right. it's so easy to forget about the praise when they're constantly behaving badly but praise even the smallest things that he does that are good. he'll love the attention.
one more thing that is important is to be consistent. if you've said he is being punished for something stick to it. don't reward him when he stops doing that thing. so say he's been screaming for whatever reason and you've said ';stop screaming or...';. if he doesn't stop screaming, punish him.or if he does stop screaming at some later stage, still punish him. it sounds harsh but they soon figure out to use it to their advantage.
that has been the hardest thing for me but i found that if i didn't say what i was going to do, then he use that to his advantage. when doing that though it's very important not to say things you're not actually going to do!!I have a 2 yr old son who is driving me crazy. He climbs out of his carseat, wont sit in a buggy. Any advice?
Try to distract him by putting toys he likes in the car or buggy with him to play with. Sit him in the car seat or buggy then hand him the toy and talk to him about it/show it to him (get him interested/distracted).
When he's playing with it, plug his seat belt in. Try not to make a fuss if he starts to make a fuss, just stay calm and neutral and carry on plugging him in. If you react to his fussy behaviour you are giving him attention which he could view as positive, if you ignore the behaviour he is not getting any emotion from you, so the idea is that he'll eventually give up.
If you plug him in without him making any fuss, give him loads of praise and attention (maybe a sticker or and activity he enjoys doing as a reward). You need to give him loads of attention for good behaviour and no attention for fussy behaviour.
Hope this helps!
First get a quality car seat that is child proof.
Second, does he do this all the time? He may have a behavioral issue that needs medical attention... Sorry to jump to the end of the spectrum here but you CAN'T rule it out on your own. A few trips to the doctor could ease your mind and then you can concentrate on giving him the attention he needs or distracting him so he learns to play on his own.
Just the age. But you do mention sitting in a carseat or buggy. These are very inactive activities for a child. Take him to a park and wear him out before taking him on a stroll. He probably just has some pent up energy.
Advice? I am a military spouse living a neighborhood where there are gang members?
My husband and I live outside of a military base where there seems to be gang related activity. The police do not patrol out here and its kind of scary. We had no idea we were moving into a place like this. In the daytime it seemed so nice.
People say that the tags that have just went up have something to do with the Crips.
Is there somewhere I can go for help or advice on base? The police don't want to take time to talk to me.
I know where the people who did the tagging live they have cars coming and going all the time.
Its scary to think that my husband could go somewhere and I could be left here all alone. Everyone else in the neighborhood is worried too, and people do not want to talk about it.
There must be something that can be done or someone who can help me or that I can go to for advice if my husband is gone....Advice? I am a military spouse living a neighborhood where there are gang members?
I just had a home invasion and fended two thugs off . they had a crowbar a pistol and knife I received 12 stitches
and when I went to the hospital thee came back and took my guitar I had for 20 years and some speakers
so,
either a: never let them see you bringing in groceries or any
possessions
or b: move
I would choose bAdvice? I am a military spouse living a neighborhood where there are gang members?
How about MP? Of course they do not have jurisdiction off base, but they can scare the hell out of those bastards by just driving around in their Hummers around the neighborhood a couple of times.
And they can give you an advice on what to do.
Hi!
I am a Military Spouse, and understand what you feeling right now. I lived off a post when stationed in Fort Bliss, and realized after moving into the apartment, the area was not so safe. I immediately contacted the onpost housing office and explained to them that due to a financial hardship, our family will need to move on post. The moved was DITY, which was nice because we were reimbursed, but you have to word it just right to get back on post. Sometimes their are waiting list, and you just have to say the right thing to bump others.
If you need any further help, or guidance, don't hesitate to email me directly to : rosakuilan@hotmail.com
We are a military family and regardless, we are our own FAMILY!!
ttyl
Move. Move into a smaller place if you have to, but in a safer neighborhood. Your best bet would be to try to get on-post housing if at all possible. You will not be able to change or fix the gang problem. Get as far away as possible.
*Moving is always an option. It might be a smaller home (or apartment/ condo), or require a longer commute. But it might be necessary to provide your family a safer place to live.
* So you were already living on base, which I'm guessing was much safer. Now I guess you'll just have to suck it up. At least there is some control on base.
I'd talk asap to the people from the base family and support center (can't remember the exact name) and move even if you have to lower the price, sell for a loss, and then rent another smaller place...
Contact the police. Let them know about the situation. Especially your connection to the military. I think you will see some patrolling being done in short order.
buy a gun and keep it with you at all times.
Have your husbands unit get involved or call in your own heavies through whatever grunt unit is available. We had a similar issue in Sydney with Pacific Islander gang members untill they were confronted and belted into oblivion, tyre levers and knifes are still no match for a platoon on a payback mission !
Might help to get specific advise if folks knew what base you are at. The only military town I know is El Paso due to lots' of business trips and a cute brunette I used to see. My point is you might get better answers from people that know the town your in.
I to at one point lived in bad area off base. woke up at 3am to find someone crawling through the window. I through a clay ashtray at him and he ran off. called the police filed a report and got base legal to get me out of my lease.
You could look into moving on-base. I can assure you, there will be no gang activity there.
it somewhat depends on what branch your husband is in and the availability of base housing - (my family is Coast Guard, so not a whole lot of base housing to be had for us, boo hoo) You should contact the family service center on your local base and see if they have any information on how to get out of your situation. It may be hard to sell, but you may have no other choice at this point. What is a financial loss compared to the loss of a child or loved one because of an errant gang bullet?
You could take action... organize a neighborhood watch team and gang up on the gangs. Create a force to be reckoned with. It will not be easy, too many people have been afraid for too long and as a result they've become jaded. Also, the gangs may try to retaliate. Choose your battles carefully. If you are too afraid of the possible retaliation, support a more peaceful way to fight back. Join up with city centers and volunteer to help at organizations that promote literacy and provide gang-free activities for the teenagers.
And on your next move, try to research the place more thoroughly before moving. The military USUALLY gives you at least two months notice that you will be moving. Research every little thing about the place - crime rates, death rates, hospital malpractice suits, business bankruptcies - these are all indicators of a neighborhood rife with riffraff. Whenever possible, live on the base. Living on the base is a blessing to the military wife, as you have the opportunity to be among others that are going through what you are going through. We all must band together to be our own support system during times when we cannot rely on our husbands as they are deployed.
Go to a military spouse club meeting and meet with other spouses in the area. Also, there are TONS of websites for military spouses that offer great advice, comraderie, support, and resources that you need to be a sucessful military family. Here is just one: http://www.milspouse.org/
If memory serves me correctly, there is a family/support office that should be able to advice you. You do need to move.
If you are renting you will be able to get out of the contract, ask if that neighborhood is on the ban list. If you own your house, do what the old saying says, if you can't join them rent to them...lol
The military can't do much for issues off post. You may want to check military housing availabilty and see what the wait list is and that can give you time to try and sell your house. There are places that buy them for cash if you are willing to take a loss on it.
In the meantime I would suggest getting a weapon. Trying to get the neighborhood watch going I mean there have been some neighborhoods that have took back there cities.
Be safe and good luck.
Sadly this type of thing even goes on on bases as well, what upsets me is if CID and the Mps know of these gang members why are they allowed to stay on post, I have even had 2 Gang members come to my home (while my husband was deployed and I knew they wanted to harm me but for what ever reasons didnt, I suggest getting a gun for protection, if your renting move!!
Also try working with other homeowners to get them out of there, the rule of thumb I live by is just because it seems like a nice area to live during the day go by there when dust falls to see what really goes on, we have left the post we use to live on and while looking for a home the houses seem really nice great price but i asked my husband is this an area in which you would be ok if i went running at night alone?
I wish I could give you more advise.
Good Luck to you !!
ANG Soldier%26amp;Armywife 10 yrs growing
People say that the tags that have just went up have something to do with the Crips.
Is there somewhere I can go for help or advice on base? The police don't want to take time to talk to me.
I know where the people who did the tagging live they have cars coming and going all the time.
Its scary to think that my husband could go somewhere and I could be left here all alone. Everyone else in the neighborhood is worried too, and people do not want to talk about it.
There must be something that can be done or someone who can help me or that I can go to for advice if my husband is gone....Advice? I am a military spouse living a neighborhood where there are gang members?
I just had a home invasion and fended two thugs off . they had a crowbar a pistol and knife I received 12 stitches
and when I went to the hospital thee came back and took my guitar I had for 20 years and some speakers
so,
either a: never let them see you bringing in groceries or any
possessions
or b: move
I would choose bAdvice? I am a military spouse living a neighborhood where there are gang members?
How about MP? Of course they do not have jurisdiction off base, but they can scare the hell out of those bastards by just driving around in their Hummers around the neighborhood a couple of times.
And they can give you an advice on what to do.
Hi!
I am a Military Spouse, and understand what you feeling right now. I lived off a post when stationed in Fort Bliss, and realized after moving into the apartment, the area was not so safe. I immediately contacted the onpost housing office and explained to them that due to a financial hardship, our family will need to move on post. The moved was DITY, which was nice because we were reimbursed, but you have to word it just right to get back on post. Sometimes their are waiting list, and you just have to say the right thing to bump others.
If you need any further help, or guidance, don't hesitate to email me directly to : rosakuilan@hotmail.com
We are a military family and regardless, we are our own FAMILY!!
ttyl
Move. Move into a smaller place if you have to, but in a safer neighborhood. Your best bet would be to try to get on-post housing if at all possible. You will not be able to change or fix the gang problem. Get as far away as possible.
*Moving is always an option. It might be a smaller home (or apartment/ condo), or require a longer commute. But it might be necessary to provide your family a safer place to live.
* So you were already living on base, which I'm guessing was much safer. Now I guess you'll just have to suck it up. At least there is some control on base.
I'd talk asap to the people from the base family and support center (can't remember the exact name) and move even if you have to lower the price, sell for a loss, and then rent another smaller place...
Contact the police. Let them know about the situation. Especially your connection to the military. I think you will see some patrolling being done in short order.
buy a gun and keep it with you at all times.
Have your husbands unit get involved or call in your own heavies through whatever grunt unit is available. We had a similar issue in Sydney with Pacific Islander gang members untill they were confronted and belted into oblivion, tyre levers and knifes are still no match for a platoon on a payback mission !
Might help to get specific advise if folks knew what base you are at. The only military town I know is El Paso due to lots' of business trips and a cute brunette I used to see. My point is you might get better answers from people that know the town your in.
I to at one point lived in bad area off base. woke up at 3am to find someone crawling through the window. I through a clay ashtray at him and he ran off. called the police filed a report and got base legal to get me out of my lease.
You could look into moving on-base. I can assure you, there will be no gang activity there.
it somewhat depends on what branch your husband is in and the availability of base housing - (my family is Coast Guard, so not a whole lot of base housing to be had for us, boo hoo) You should contact the family service center on your local base and see if they have any information on how to get out of your situation. It may be hard to sell, but you may have no other choice at this point. What is a financial loss compared to the loss of a child or loved one because of an errant gang bullet?
You could take action... organize a neighborhood watch team and gang up on the gangs. Create a force to be reckoned with. It will not be easy, too many people have been afraid for too long and as a result they've become jaded. Also, the gangs may try to retaliate. Choose your battles carefully. If you are too afraid of the possible retaliation, support a more peaceful way to fight back. Join up with city centers and volunteer to help at organizations that promote literacy and provide gang-free activities for the teenagers.
And on your next move, try to research the place more thoroughly before moving. The military USUALLY gives you at least two months notice that you will be moving. Research every little thing about the place - crime rates, death rates, hospital malpractice suits, business bankruptcies - these are all indicators of a neighborhood rife with riffraff. Whenever possible, live on the base. Living on the base is a blessing to the military wife, as you have the opportunity to be among others that are going through what you are going through. We all must band together to be our own support system during times when we cannot rely on our husbands as they are deployed.
Go to a military spouse club meeting and meet with other spouses in the area. Also, there are TONS of websites for military spouses that offer great advice, comraderie, support, and resources that you need to be a sucessful military family. Here is just one: http://www.milspouse.org/
If memory serves me correctly, there is a family/support office that should be able to advice you. You do need to move.
If you are renting you will be able to get out of the contract, ask if that neighborhood is on the ban list. If you own your house, do what the old saying says, if you can't join them rent to them...lol
The military can't do much for issues off post. You may want to check military housing availabilty and see what the wait list is and that can give you time to try and sell your house. There are places that buy them for cash if you are willing to take a loss on it.
In the meantime I would suggest getting a weapon. Trying to get the neighborhood watch going I mean there have been some neighborhoods that have took back there cities.
Be safe and good luck.
Sadly this type of thing even goes on on bases as well, what upsets me is if CID and the Mps know of these gang members why are they allowed to stay on post, I have even had 2 Gang members come to my home (while my husband was deployed and I knew they wanted to harm me but for what ever reasons didnt, I suggest getting a gun for protection, if your renting move!!
Also try working with other homeowners to get them out of there, the rule of thumb I live by is just because it seems like a nice area to live during the day go by there when dust falls to see what really goes on, we have left the post we use to live on and while looking for a home the houses seem really nice great price but i asked my husband is this an area in which you would be ok if i went running at night alone?
I wish I could give you more advise.
Good Luck to you !!
ANG Soldier%26amp;Armywife 10 yrs growing
Hi,could u please advice me, i did blood test and the WBC(AUTOMATED )SHOWED 12.3 M/UL, WHAT COULD BE THAT ?
ALL OTHER WHITE BLOOD CELL ELEMENTS ARE AVERAGE,Hi,could u please advice me, i did blood test and the WBC(AUTOMATED )SHOWED 12.3 M/UL, WHAT COULD BE THAT ?
Normal!!!Hi,could u please advice me, i did blood test and the WBC(AUTOMATED )SHOWED 12.3 M/UL, WHAT COULD BE THAT ?
That's just slightly high. maybe some kind of infection? recheck it.
Normal!!!Hi,could u please advice me, i did blood test and the WBC(AUTOMATED )SHOWED 12.3 M/UL, WHAT COULD BE THAT ?
That's just slightly high. maybe some kind of infection? recheck it.
What is the best way to grow parsley and pepers? Looking to grow some small vegetables - seeking some advice.?
I grow them in containers. I use the bowl type for my herbs, parsley included. I find they like to be in the sun, but having them in containers makes it easy to move them as soon as I start to see them faltering, being eaten by bugs or snails or not getting enough water from the sprinkler system. I also use larger containers to grow red, yellow and green peppers. Really, any stalk type veggie plant will do well in containers. Tomato plants will need support as they get larger, either cages, stakes or I use the plastic type hard tack. A farmer friend of mine told me to watch out for a type of blight the tomatoes get and never to plant them in the same container two years in a row.
I tried to grow vine plants, like cucumbers, pumpkins, etc. but they are too hard to grow in containers.
However, in this heat (100 degrees) today, I am watering daily in the morning when it is cool. I also use a veggie safe insecticide and fungicide and a compost tea as fertilizer.
BTW, I also grow dwarf fruit trees in containers but have yet to get any lemons, limes or tangerines and they are in their second year. We had some strong winds and all of the blooms fell off. Maybe next year!
I don't grow anything by seed. I always buy already growing plants, that is because I'm an impatient gardener and like fast results.What is the best way to grow parsley and pepers? Looking to grow some small vegetables - seeking some advice.?
Doesn't a pepper plant need to be planted next to another pepper plant?What is the best way to grow parsley and pepers? Looking to grow some small vegetables - seeking some advice.?
Try half wine barrels. Drill holes in the bottom for drainage and set them up on some bricks or concrete blocks. Cover the bottom with screen wire cut to cover the holes. Fill with high-quality planting soil, some manure and some cottonseed meal (excellent all-round fertilizer for just about anything). Make sure the peppers get enough sun. The parsley will probably like partial shade. Other good barrel plants are lettuce (grow in mostly shade) and basil and mint.
I am growing all my veggies and herbs in pots...
PARSLEY.
(Carum petroselinum).鈥?Parsley is usually raised afresh from seed each year, as young plants provide the best-curled leaves. Any ordinary soil will suffice, and parsley can well be grown as a border edging round the vegetable garden or as edging in the herb garden. There is a common saying that ';Parsley goes to the devil before it comes up.'; In other words the seed takes a long time to germinate. To keep a supply all through the winter months it is necessary to lift a few of the youngest plants at the end of the summer, and pack them into the soil of the cold frame.
there's advice on how to grow nearly everything at the resource below
Containers. But make sure you get them large enough so that your plants will have enough room. Also be sure to start with good potting soil, don't buy the cheep stuff it just isn't worth the savings. Keep an eye on the moisture, they will dry out really quick in a container.
parsley is a biennial, the 2nd year will produce seed, also will 'bolt' if dry, so keep moist and in shade
last year I got 6 plants, the ones that grew best (2 ft high) were in shade most of the day, the ones in full sun stayed small
Peppers need lots of sun and warmth, unless in a southern area will need a green house,
the best small veg to grow now are raddish and lettuce, lots of varieties, some can grow well into Autumn
try: www.bbc.co.uk/gardening
or find a good garden site for your area
Parsley can be easily grown from seed in a pot or in your garden. I would buy a pepper plant that is already grown a bit. I've only grown peppers in the garden, but I suppose you could try it in a container if you live in an apartment.
I tried to grow vine plants, like cucumbers, pumpkins, etc. but they are too hard to grow in containers.
However, in this heat (100 degrees) today, I am watering daily in the morning when it is cool. I also use a veggie safe insecticide and fungicide and a compost tea as fertilizer.
BTW, I also grow dwarf fruit trees in containers but have yet to get any lemons, limes or tangerines and they are in their second year. We had some strong winds and all of the blooms fell off. Maybe next year!
I don't grow anything by seed. I always buy already growing plants, that is because I'm an impatient gardener and like fast results.What is the best way to grow parsley and pepers? Looking to grow some small vegetables - seeking some advice.?
Doesn't a pepper plant need to be planted next to another pepper plant?What is the best way to grow parsley and pepers? Looking to grow some small vegetables - seeking some advice.?
Try half wine barrels. Drill holes in the bottom for drainage and set them up on some bricks or concrete blocks. Cover the bottom with screen wire cut to cover the holes. Fill with high-quality planting soil, some manure and some cottonseed meal (excellent all-round fertilizer for just about anything). Make sure the peppers get enough sun. The parsley will probably like partial shade. Other good barrel plants are lettuce (grow in mostly shade) and basil and mint.
I am growing all my veggies and herbs in pots...
PARSLEY.
(Carum petroselinum).鈥?Parsley is usually raised afresh from seed each year, as young plants provide the best-curled leaves. Any ordinary soil will suffice, and parsley can well be grown as a border edging round the vegetable garden or as edging in the herb garden. There is a common saying that ';Parsley goes to the devil before it comes up.'; In other words the seed takes a long time to germinate. To keep a supply all through the winter months it is necessary to lift a few of the youngest plants at the end of the summer, and pack them into the soil of the cold frame.
there's advice on how to grow nearly everything at the resource below
Containers. But make sure you get them large enough so that your plants will have enough room. Also be sure to start with good potting soil, don't buy the cheep stuff it just isn't worth the savings. Keep an eye on the moisture, they will dry out really quick in a container.
parsley is a biennial, the 2nd year will produce seed, also will 'bolt' if dry, so keep moist and in shade
last year I got 6 plants, the ones that grew best (2 ft high) were in shade most of the day, the ones in full sun stayed small
Peppers need lots of sun and warmth, unless in a southern area will need a green house,
the best small veg to grow now are raddish and lettuce, lots of varieties, some can grow well into Autumn
try: www.bbc.co.uk/gardening
or find a good garden site for your area
Parsley can be easily grown from seed in a pot or in your garden. I would buy a pepper plant that is already grown a bit. I've only grown peppers in the garden, but I suppose you could try it in a container if you live in an apartment.
What would be your advice to new users?
who comes to Yahoo! AnswerWhat would be your advice to new users?
Use this forum as a means to improve your english language skills.If you have doubts regarding meaning of few sentences in English dailies (begginers would surely have) you can post your queries in Arts %26amp; Humanities -%26gt;Words %26amp; Wordplay section.If you add someone as contact your questions would be quickly accessible to them ( It would appear separately to them).Add persons with high percentage of best answers as contacts.Try to express your question concisely,which will help in your profession too.Be concerned with quality of your answers rather than quantity.Maintain decorum.Use this forum as a means of acheiving mutual benefit.Please dont forget to choose a best answer to your question,it's the way you show your gratitude to persons who spared time to answer your questions.What would be your advice to new users?
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just this much!
';Be Bindaas:)';
';Be Friendly:)';
';Be Decent:)';
';Be Urself:)';
';Don't care 4 point system n stars... they r just moh maya';
heheheh... enough of gyaan vani!! I do hope this helps:)
enjoy n have fun:):)
Welcome 2 y!a:):)
ThankS:)
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Never play ';AVATAR GAMEZ';..........!!!
Respect othrz........!!!
And yeah alwayz *~HaVe FuN~*............like me.........!!!
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No avatar games. They are fun, but you always get reported.......:(
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it will mislead ppl like u!
Use this forum as a means to improve your english language skills.If you have doubts regarding meaning of few sentences in English dailies (begginers would surely have) you can post your queries in Arts %26amp; Humanities -%26gt;Words %26amp; Wordplay section.If you add someone as contact your questions would be quickly accessible to them ( It would appear separately to them).Add persons with high percentage of best answers as contacts.Try to express your question concisely,which will help in your profession too.Be concerned with quality of your answers rather than quantity.Maintain decorum.Use this forum as a means of acheiving mutual benefit.Please dont forget to choose a best answer to your question,it's the way you show your gratitude to persons who spared time to answer your questions.What would be your advice to new users?
my advice will be that- hmm..answer nicely but yaa no rude comments! if someone didn't like a question or something,he/she shouldn't answer it only why to pass rude comments %26amp; hurt someone! then..i will say we are here to gain knowledge so make friends here! you will get nothing by making someone your enemy! then...Y!A is completely a time pass,so don't get addicted to it!
just this much!
';Be Bindaas:)';
';Be Friendly:)';
';Be Decent:)';
';Be Urself:)';
';Don't care 4 point system n stars... they r just moh maya';
heheheh... enough of gyaan vani!! I do hope this helps:)
enjoy n have fun:):)
Welcome 2 y!a:):)
ThankS:)
Being too much of an individual will get you nothing but misery so just start out by agreeing with everyone even if you actually disagree.
Sadly.....Individuality is not celebrated here.
Beware of ';VIOLATIONZ';.......!!!
Never play ';AVATAR GAMEZ';..........!!!
Respect othrz........!!!
And yeah alwayz *~HaVe FuN~*............like me.........!!!
Work hard. Answer maximum in the begining to go to next stage. Also ask questions so that others can get chance to answer.
♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥
dont get addicted.... itz hard 2 leave this site!!
♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥•♥
Keep answering.
Obey Community Guidelines...
~~~Keep answering ......
if u can't .......
~~~keep reading other comments/views
if u can't........
~~~keep smiling
~~~~~~~~have a good day
Beware from Delhite Wonder, He do some times thunder.
Just say ';no';! Step away from Y/A and just say ';NO';. lol
Just enjoy. Keep away from indecency, that's all.
Just keep answering..
No avatar games. They are fun, but you always get reported.......:(
Have fun but watch out for the trolls!
Tis is a Beautiful place but at times..WATCH OUT!!!!
plz post gud answer and dont vote for miscevious answers ....
it will mislead ppl like u!
Serious answers with GOOD advice only! issues with trust when there shouldnt be?
ok so i have a weird issue. i dont know what is going on with me but my husband and i had a baby 4 months ago and ever since then i feel extremely vulnerable and im having a hard time trusting him. some events occured when we first started dating that related to him never mentioning to anyone we were dating. this created feelings that he didnt think i was really good enough for him. we were in high school, we;ve discussed it and he says it was because of our age difference. i believe him and i dont think this is the issue but its one of the things im having a hard time trusting him about lately. it feels like as soon as the baby was born, i for some reason felt like i needed to worry about our relationship. i find myself not trusting him and questioning everything when he hasnt even done anything wrong. i feel so badly and so guilty about this and i realize this is whats happening, but i dont know what to do to change it. i try not to bug him about it so i feel like im alone in thisSerious answers with GOOD advice only! issues with trust when there shouldnt be?
I think that, more than likely, the feelings that you are now having is because you feel overwhelmed with a new baby and you are probably totally exhausted physically and mentally. And you probably feel insecure in your ability to care for the baby. We all hear on tv or read in magazines how the celebrity moms manage their household, handle the trials of motherhood, get their pre pregnancy body back and romance their husbands and WE ';normal women'; feel like crap because it all hasn't ran so smoothly for us.
I think that you should probably make an appointment to see your doctor to let him know about your ';irrational'; emotional issues. You may be suffering from some sort of post partum depression.
I am not sure what your age difference is, but I can totally understand your husband not telling people that you two were dating. If you were in high school, people would probably be thinking badly of him dating you if he was already out of school for more than a year. He shouldn't of cared, but most of us really do care what people think or are somewhat upset when people think badly of us. As far as you not being good enough for him, he did marry you and have a child with you, so I'm sure that's not it.
If your plans are to be a stay at home mom, then good for you. But, I would strongly encourage you to join a Mommy %26amp; Me class; take an aerobic class; have regular outings with friends. Don't lose yourself. You will be a better mom if you don't totally neglect yourself and the need for interaction with other adults (besides your husband). It will help your self esteem tremendously.
Good luck.Serious answers with GOOD advice only! issues with trust when there shouldnt be?
you are young and native..
u have a long road to travel... if ur heart and head are telling u something..
u best listen...
u are so in love with him.. u want to believe him .. or u realize the relationship will break up..
he has u snowed..
u need to go get a job and become independent.. for u and the baby's sake...
don't ever depend on love or a man...
love ur self and child first.. then the man...
I think you are feeling young and insecure. Raising a child for the next 20 years (at least) is a huge commitment and can be frightening.
Can you get your mother to come stay with you for a few weeks and help with the baby? It's your first - why learn alone?
Also, it might be that you are exhausted. How much sleep does any parent get with a four month old baby? Could your hubby tend to the child and give you a ';free day?';
You won't know if anything is wrong with your husband until you find out - the best thing to do is to believe him! You know this. I think your husband is an easy outlet and you need help and rest and strength.
good luck!
Been there. You just had a baby. Its your hormones. I was a wreck too after both my kids were born. You feel tired and fat and unatractive. I know it stinks right now but it will get better. Have some cuddle time with him and try to get some exercise. Exercise relieves stress and gives you energy. Your hormones will eventually level out I promise! Talk to you OB maybe the doc can give you some pointers. It took me about 6 months before I got back into the swing of things. Eventually your baby will sleep more at night and you can get some rest too. I think that has a lot to do with it. You'll stop being so emotional when your hormones level out.
You don't want to lose him and I think you're right that these feelings are causing a rift to develop.
Having a baby changes many things in a woman. It is possible that you have some form of Post Natal Depression so a talk to your doctor or a counsellor may be appropriate.
Also try and spend some good time together you and him and keep your mind busy - maybe if you're not working you could volunteer a bit.
Good Luck
Joe
I think that, more than likely, the feelings that you are now having is because you feel overwhelmed with a new baby and you are probably totally exhausted physically and mentally. And you probably feel insecure in your ability to care for the baby. We all hear on tv or read in magazines how the celebrity moms manage their household, handle the trials of motherhood, get their pre pregnancy body back and romance their husbands and WE ';normal women'; feel like crap because it all hasn't ran so smoothly for us.
I think that you should probably make an appointment to see your doctor to let him know about your ';irrational'; emotional issues. You may be suffering from some sort of post partum depression.
I am not sure what your age difference is, but I can totally understand your husband not telling people that you two were dating. If you were in high school, people would probably be thinking badly of him dating you if he was already out of school for more than a year. He shouldn't of cared, but most of us really do care what people think or are somewhat upset when people think badly of us. As far as you not being good enough for him, he did marry you and have a child with you, so I'm sure that's not it.
If your plans are to be a stay at home mom, then good for you. But, I would strongly encourage you to join a Mommy %26amp; Me class; take an aerobic class; have regular outings with friends. Don't lose yourself. You will be a better mom if you don't totally neglect yourself and the need for interaction with other adults (besides your husband). It will help your self esteem tremendously.
Good luck.Serious answers with GOOD advice only! issues with trust when there shouldnt be?
you are young and native..
u have a long road to travel... if ur heart and head are telling u something..
u best listen...
u are so in love with him.. u want to believe him .. or u realize the relationship will break up..
he has u snowed..
u need to go get a job and become independent.. for u and the baby's sake...
don't ever depend on love or a man...
love ur self and child first.. then the man...
I think you are feeling young and insecure. Raising a child for the next 20 years (at least) is a huge commitment and can be frightening.
Can you get your mother to come stay with you for a few weeks and help with the baby? It's your first - why learn alone?
Also, it might be that you are exhausted. How much sleep does any parent get with a four month old baby? Could your hubby tend to the child and give you a ';free day?';
You won't know if anything is wrong with your husband until you find out - the best thing to do is to believe him! You know this. I think your husband is an easy outlet and you need help and rest and strength.
good luck!
Been there. You just had a baby. Its your hormones. I was a wreck too after both my kids were born. You feel tired and fat and unatractive. I know it stinks right now but it will get better. Have some cuddle time with him and try to get some exercise. Exercise relieves stress and gives you energy. Your hormones will eventually level out I promise! Talk to you OB maybe the doc can give you some pointers. It took me about 6 months before I got back into the swing of things. Eventually your baby will sleep more at night and you can get some rest too. I think that has a lot to do with it. You'll stop being so emotional when your hormones level out.
You don't want to lose him and I think you're right that these feelings are causing a rift to develop.
Having a baby changes many things in a woman. It is possible that you have some form of Post Natal Depression so a talk to your doctor or a counsellor may be appropriate.
Also try and spend some good time together you and him and keep your mind busy - maybe if you're not working you could volunteer a bit.
Good Luck
Joe
My graphite rod assembly lowering mechanism seems to be stuck... any advice?
DOH! (Sorry)My graphite rod assembly lowering mechanism seems to be stuck... any advice?
OH...Tiger...are you allowed to talk like this on here?.....I don't know who to scold first....You who made the statement or Me who understood it......or maybe Misunderstood......This is a question worthy of Wolfie's asking....and he was Removed.....yet again......Hey, he's not hanging out out your place and getting online as You is he?
But...to answer your question....Massage Oil....especially with Essential Oil of Sandalwood gently applied will usually get it unstuck......My graphite rod assembly lowering mechanism seems to be stuck... any advice?
Isn't graphite a lubricant sort of stuff that makes things slide easier? Bring it here and I'll rub a pencil on it, that's what I always do when something is stuck.
lmao, blame it on the new guy!
I agree with whoever said that!
Or you can blame it on the person who doesn't speak english
edit: To the person above.....tigey doesn't have dirty in him :) he's too polite and nice! :) (but maybe i'm wrong)
Learn to speak russian, real quick. Next, call anyone in Chernobyl and ask what they did.
Then do the opposite.
Read The 'Instruction Book' that came with it....!!
Take it apart and reassemble, or throw it out and get a new one.
Call China and tell them to expect a surprise.
Run like hell and blame it on the new guy
WD40 and then sand it down once you get it out.cartridge remedies blackheads
OH...Tiger...are you allowed to talk like this on here?.....I don't know who to scold first....You who made the statement or Me who understood it......or maybe Misunderstood......This is a question worthy of Wolfie's asking....and he was Removed.....yet again......Hey, he's not hanging out out your place and getting online as You is he?
But...to answer your question....Massage Oil....especially with Essential Oil of Sandalwood gently applied will usually get it unstuck......My graphite rod assembly lowering mechanism seems to be stuck... any advice?
Isn't graphite a lubricant sort of stuff that makes things slide easier? Bring it here and I'll rub a pencil on it, that's what I always do when something is stuck.
lmao, blame it on the new guy!
I agree with whoever said that!
Or you can blame it on the person who doesn't speak english
edit: To the person above.....tigey doesn't have dirty in him :) he's too polite and nice! :) (but maybe i'm wrong)
Learn to speak russian, real quick. Next, call anyone in Chernobyl and ask what they did.
Then do the opposite.
Read The 'Instruction Book' that came with it....!!
Take it apart and reassemble, or throw it out and get a new one.
Call China and tell them to expect a surprise.
Run like hell and blame it on the new guy
WD40 and then sand it down once you get it out.
May be pregnant - need advice?
I think I may be pregnant. I've gone off my food and I do drink and smoke but now its all making me feel sick.
I haven't told my partner. We both would decide to keep it but now is seriously not a good time. I am on the pill but its just this nagging feeling in my head that's telling me I'm pregnant. I know I shouldn't panic etc as I don't know if I actually am but a little advice would be much appreciated.May be pregnant - need advice?
its possible, but i think other things can cause many pregnancy symtoms.
provided you take the pill correctly its supposed to be almost 100% effective, so dont panic!
I haven't told my partner. We both would decide to keep it but now is seriously not a good time. I am on the pill but its just this nagging feeling in my head that's telling me I'm pregnant. I know I shouldn't panic etc as I don't know if I actually am but a little advice would be much appreciated.May be pregnant - need advice?
its possible, but i think other things can cause many pregnancy symtoms.
provided you take the pill correctly its supposed to be almost 100% effective, so dont panic!
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