ok, I started dating this gorgeous girl on june 1st of this year, about a week later she told me she was pregnant. within this week I caught her getting flirtatious texts from other guys. I have asked her over and over again ';if its not mine, just come clean its ok';(she still says its mine) now we have been together for close to 2 and a half months and she kind of looks four months pregnant... what should i do? i like her quite a bit and our relationship is suffering when i question her since she says its mineMy Gf might not be pregnant by me??? advice?
well she wouldn't know she was pregnant after a week..so if you were only with her for a week and she was already pregnant then there is no possibility it could be yours. The earliest she could find out is 14 days after she conceived.
Also, if you are one of them guys thats in denial and still thinks it could be yours, ask to go to a dr. appointment with her, they should be measuring her belly everytime and give her a due date, ask questions yourself, that way she can't lie.My Gf might not be pregnant by me??? advice?
Sorry to tell you this but there is no way that you meet her and she told you she was pregnant 1 week later by you. It would have taken at least 3 to 4 weeks for her to know. It sounds like to me that the baby isn't yours but that doesn't mean you can't be there for her nad the baby. Remember it takes more to be a daddy then sperm.
it is not yours, sorry to be so blunt. But there is no way to find out you are pregnant a week after you concieved so unless you two were having sex before you started dating then there is no way it is yours. walk away now, she knows it is not yours she most likly just thinks that you will be a better father then the man who actually is the father
Like everyone else said I think it's impossible for you to be the father. She wouldn't know that soon she got pregnant.
If she is lying to you this early in the relationship I doubt it's destined to get very far. This may be a sign to get out now.
If it really is your baby she can contact you and get a paternity test. I have a feeling she won't because she may know who the father is.
Do what is best for you! I wish you the best of luck.
The baby is not your! There's no way is your because you guys only been together for one week and she already told you that she was pregnant! you should asked her how many months is she and told her that you want an DNA test to prove that is your or not if she keep saying that the baby is your. Good luck.
she would not be able to tell after one week... sometimes you have to be closer to 5 weeks before you know for sure. I don't think it's right what she is doing.
I am 17 and found myself pg with the boy I lost my virginity to. We started sleeping together April 2nd and I was not able to get a positive result until May 2.
Its no way that baby is yours.. 1 week is way to soon for a positive test.. If you feel different then the only thing to do is request a dna test when the child is born. Also, go with her to the dr to know excatly how far along she is so you do the math. she shouln't even be no where near 3 months. she should be about 6-7 weeks tops.
Good luck
you need to get the baby tested but I don't think ti's yours because it takes at least 10 days to get a positive pregnancy test. This situation sounds impossible. I can't tell you what to do but do the math, What is her due date?
It's not yours.
after one week of dating she would not know that she was then pregnant..it was way too soon.
I would dump her lying butt.
it's not your kid! Quit that lying tr@mp now befor you catch something!
Well, go to a doctors appointment with her
Ask HIM when the baby was conceived and how far along she is
Do the math and you will know
Plus if you really are the father, she should be more then happy for you to accompany her to the appointment where you can hear the heart beat and see the baby etc.
But, if you were with her for only a week and she told you she was pregnant, I can almost guarantee you its not yours.
You dont get a positive pregnancy result until your at least 3 weeks.
Pregnancy starts at implantation, not conception. It can take that fertilized egg up to a week to even attach to the uterine wall.
1 week is not nearly enough time.
If your still worried, get her to take a paternity test after the baby is born. This way, even if she claims its yours, you do not have to be a father or pay child support for a baby that's not yours.
trust your instinct. thats the one thing that willnever lie to you. i know and heard of girls doing this. so, my advice to you, be there for her, when the baby comes, simply get a dna test. tell her, not ask her. you will want a dna test. if she gets mad, shes childish and immature and obviously is hiding something. she has to be understanding about the situation. it involves a baby. she should agree. if she disagrees and doesnt approve, do not sign any papers when the baby is born, you will not legaly be responsible until proven other wise. if you really care for her, you deserve to be cared for in return. if she is lieing, well, you know the rest. if you feel this baby isnt yours, make sure, before making any rash decisions. she should, in my opinion be ok with agreeing with a paternity test. if i knew in my heart that my boyfriend whom i barely been with was the father, i would agree to it, to help calm is worried mind and try to work on 'us'. gudluck to u.
Friday, January 8, 2010
Any advice for single mum's to be!?
Ask for help if you need it from family
Organise matainance (if you can) from prior partener
Get yourself set early for the baby
Don't let anyone get you down
Don't believe everything your social says - it's your child
And be proud of yourself and your acheivements - its not easy!
Good luck, my mum was a single mum til she met my (step) dad and Ive turned out ok... i think...Any advice for single mum's to be!?
Be near your family or close friends and take any help that is offered to you.Any advice for single mum's to be!?
get a job
go back to school to get a better job
take help friends and family
use state assistance if necessary its no crime
be prepared to work VERY hard
do what you have to do legally to protect your child
Organise matainance (if you can) from prior partener
Get yourself set early for the baby
Don't let anyone get you down
Don't believe everything your social says - it's your child
And be proud of yourself and your acheivements - its not easy!
Good luck, my mum was a single mum til she met my (step) dad and Ive turned out ok... i think...Any advice for single mum's to be!?
Be near your family or close friends and take any help that is offered to you.Any advice for single mum's to be!?
get a job
go back to school to get a better job
take help friends and family
use state assistance if necessary its no crime
be prepared to work VERY hard
do what you have to do legally to protect your child
Any advice would be amazing, 10 points best answer?
A girl i really like is in a relationship right now. I've liked her for a few months nows and its tearing me apart to see her with the other guy. I want to tell her how i feel but i'm not sure when i should.
Should i tell her while she is still dating him? or
Should i tell her after they break up?Any advice would be amazing, 10 points best answer?
definitely tell her after they break up like also be there as a friend to comfort her and stuff after the break up then move in after you think she is over him or if theres any chance they are getting bak together
Should i tell her while she is still dating him? or
Should i tell her after they break up?Any advice would be amazing, 10 points best answer?
definitely tell her after they break up like also be there as a friend to comfort her and stuff after the break up then move in after you think she is over him or if theres any chance they are getting bak together
Any advice would be great?
My grandad passed away last night and im not really that great at coping with grieve and things like that. just got over depression and would like any advice on coping better this timeAny advice would be great?
So sorry to hear about the loss of your Grandad. I think the most important thing you can do is find someone that you can honestly talk to about how you are feeling, be that a friend or a counsellor. Also do not let yourself sink back into depression. If you feel you are going that way then seek advice from your Dr. asap before it gets too bad. And most importantly give yourself time and be patient with yourself. xAny advice would be great?
the best advice i can give is to talk and talk and talk about grandad, don't block it all in, go through the natural stages of grief and anger and let yourself cry as much as you want and then talk some more, look at pictures and laugh at the memories.
Coming to grips and accepting the fact that your grandad is gone is the near end process of grieving. First, you have to let your body feel the pain of the loss. Apparently, you must have really loved your grandad very much. He is in a better place now and doesn't feel pain anymore. Think about your beloved ones who are on this earth still. Concentrate on those who love you.
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, and feel for you.
Try this link to the Mind website
http://www.mind.org.uk/Information/Bookl鈥?/a>
it may offer you some helpful informationg to guide you through what is going to be a tough time for you.
Keep an eye on your mental health as well, as a major life event, as bereavement is, can cause depression, or maybe a relapse in your case - I'm not saying it will, but just to be aware of it, and watch for any signs that indicate you may need help.
Don't feel that you have failed if the depression comes back, it's only a relapse, and it is possible to get back on the road to recovery.
Bereavment counselling may be something to consider, as it may help you to cope.
Try to look after yourself and keep doing the things that have made you well again, if you are having to help others around you, it's important that you don't forget yourself.
Everyone deals with grief in different ways and also in how long it takes them to get over it - you may need a little more time that others, but don't worry about it, there are no hard and fast rules about how to cope and what to do.
Good luck and take care.
There's no easy answer to this question. Everyone deals with serious loss in their own way. However, having someone who is a good listener can help a little. Just remember that TIME heals all wounds.
sorry about that mate,all i can say is just remember all the good times,the funny moments you had with him,that way you will celebrate his life in a good way
Hi,
Firstly I would like to say how sorry I am to hear of your sad loss.
It is not healthy to avoid grief or to deny a major loss for a long period of time. Avoidance of grief may lead to serious physical or emotional problems later in life.
The most important aspect for grieving people is learning to cope with the loss. Individuals who are grieving need to speak with and explain their feelings to others, so please speak to a friend or a close family member, remember you do not have to tackle this alone. You never get over losing a loved one, you just learn to live without them, you don't lose memories so when you are feeling sad just think of all the good times.
I hope this information is of use to you, and wish you all the best for the future.
think of your grandad at the time when he may of told you a story about himself,or a time you might have stayed with him, and what you did with him as a child,my grandfather always told us a story about his kilt (he was a scott),and some embarrasing times he had,then he would play his bagpipes,i can still see him with his pipes and tapping his foot.you must have some happy memorable times of your grandad,he will never leave you, because he,s in your heart always.lay on your bed and picture him,what he used to enjoy doing,his smile.if you shed a few tears ,thats ok,it does help,let your feelings out,i,m sure you,ll always remember him with love in your heart.
I'm very sorry...
don't repress ur feelings, accept the grieveing process %26amp; remember that he's in heaven, smlining down on you %26amp; waiting until u'll be together again...spend time with ur family who're also grieving %26amp; know what u r going thru'...whatever u do, don't keep it inside %26amp; share ur feelings.
your grandad would not want you to be sad try to remember the good times and enjoy them i know its hard but you have to carry on i lost my mum in June last year and i miss her a lot about 3 weeks ago i tried to phone her so please cry if you need to but try to think of the happier times .Sorry to hear of your loss
Call a friend
Take a walk
Don't be alone too long
Talk about him and his death
Go to therapy if needs be
I'm sorry for your loss.
Speak to family about how you feel. Hold them close to you.
my heart goes out to ya i lost my grandad 5 yrs ago although he cant b replaced his memorys wil live on and his stories b told to my children and grandkids that way although u cant c him his spirit wil b strong wiv u and sometimes it wil stil feel as though is stil there. thats how i cope and sometimes i chuckle as though he is stil ere sharing his life stories . Life is just 1 big learning curve this is just another new emotion ur learning and that in mind will make u stronger . U wil b ok u took the 1st step in coping by talkin about it .
just think about all the happy times you had with him it is ok to be sad but it is not your fault he would have not whated you to beat you sealf up over something you clould not conntroll
Think of the good times you had together and how he would want you to feel and remember him. When ever I think of someone dear I have lost I convince myself they are in a better place now. Hope this helps a little bit.
I had that same problem i got over it show you also well.
Hi im sorry to hear about this loss... Please try and remember the ';happy moments'; crying is good and there will be lots of it. but over time and lots of time you will cope better... just dont lock yourself in all the time thinking about it... You need to get out there and carry on to some extent.
Good luck :o)
I am not sure how close you were to your grandad. but it still hurts and is painful. Remember the fun times you had with him and cherish those memories. If the man was old and suffering keep in mind that he is at peace now and not hurting, he also lived a long life and it was his time to go. Allow yourself to feel sad and grieve. This is all part of the healing process.
I am sorry about your loss. You will get through this, and it will take time, it is a process that must be gone through.
allow yourself to greive over your lose! I am sorry about the lose of your love one. But if you feel like crying, screaming ect. allow yourself to do so. where it seems we go wrong is not allowing our feelings and emotions out. we all greive in our own ways and the time on greiving is different for everyone. but the more you deneigh yourself the chance to let your emotions out the harder it is on us. good luck .
So sorry to hear about the loss of your Grandad. I think the most important thing you can do is find someone that you can honestly talk to about how you are feeling, be that a friend or a counsellor. Also do not let yourself sink back into depression. If you feel you are going that way then seek advice from your Dr. asap before it gets too bad. And most importantly give yourself time and be patient with yourself. xAny advice would be great?
the best advice i can give is to talk and talk and talk about grandad, don't block it all in, go through the natural stages of grief and anger and let yourself cry as much as you want and then talk some more, look at pictures and laugh at the memories.
Coming to grips and accepting the fact that your grandad is gone is the near end process of grieving. First, you have to let your body feel the pain of the loss. Apparently, you must have really loved your grandad very much. He is in a better place now and doesn't feel pain anymore. Think about your beloved ones who are on this earth still. Concentrate on those who love you.
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, and feel for you.
Try this link to the Mind website
http://www.mind.org.uk/Information/Bookl鈥?/a>
it may offer you some helpful informationg to guide you through what is going to be a tough time for you.
Keep an eye on your mental health as well, as a major life event, as bereavement is, can cause depression, or maybe a relapse in your case - I'm not saying it will, but just to be aware of it, and watch for any signs that indicate you may need help.
Don't feel that you have failed if the depression comes back, it's only a relapse, and it is possible to get back on the road to recovery.
Bereavment counselling may be something to consider, as it may help you to cope.
Try to look after yourself and keep doing the things that have made you well again, if you are having to help others around you, it's important that you don't forget yourself.
Everyone deals with grief in different ways and also in how long it takes them to get over it - you may need a little more time that others, but don't worry about it, there are no hard and fast rules about how to cope and what to do.
Good luck and take care.
There's no easy answer to this question. Everyone deals with serious loss in their own way. However, having someone who is a good listener can help a little. Just remember that TIME heals all wounds.
sorry about that mate,all i can say is just remember all the good times,the funny moments you had with him,that way you will celebrate his life in a good way
Hi,
Firstly I would like to say how sorry I am to hear of your sad loss.
It is not healthy to avoid grief or to deny a major loss for a long period of time. Avoidance of grief may lead to serious physical or emotional problems later in life.
The most important aspect for grieving people is learning to cope with the loss. Individuals who are grieving need to speak with and explain their feelings to others, so please speak to a friend or a close family member, remember you do not have to tackle this alone. You never get over losing a loved one, you just learn to live without them, you don't lose memories so when you are feeling sad just think of all the good times.
I hope this information is of use to you, and wish you all the best for the future.
think of your grandad at the time when he may of told you a story about himself,or a time you might have stayed with him, and what you did with him as a child,my grandfather always told us a story about his kilt (he was a scott),and some embarrasing times he had,then he would play his bagpipes,i can still see him with his pipes and tapping his foot.you must have some happy memorable times of your grandad,he will never leave you, because he,s in your heart always.lay on your bed and picture him,what he used to enjoy doing,his smile.if you shed a few tears ,thats ok,it does help,let your feelings out,i,m sure you,ll always remember him with love in your heart.
I'm very sorry...
don't repress ur feelings, accept the grieveing process %26amp; remember that he's in heaven, smlining down on you %26amp; waiting until u'll be together again...spend time with ur family who're also grieving %26amp; know what u r going thru'...whatever u do, don't keep it inside %26amp; share ur feelings.
your grandad would not want you to be sad try to remember the good times and enjoy them i know its hard but you have to carry on i lost my mum in June last year and i miss her a lot about 3 weeks ago i tried to phone her so please cry if you need to but try to think of the happier times .Sorry to hear of your loss
Call a friend
Take a walk
Don't be alone too long
Talk about him and his death
Go to therapy if needs be
I'm sorry for your loss.
Speak to family about how you feel. Hold them close to you.
my heart goes out to ya i lost my grandad 5 yrs ago although he cant b replaced his memorys wil live on and his stories b told to my children and grandkids that way although u cant c him his spirit wil b strong wiv u and sometimes it wil stil feel as though is stil there. thats how i cope and sometimes i chuckle as though he is stil ere sharing his life stories . Life is just 1 big learning curve this is just another new emotion ur learning and that in mind will make u stronger . U wil b ok u took the 1st step in coping by talkin about it .
just think about all the happy times you had with him it is ok to be sad but it is not your fault he would have not whated you to beat you sealf up over something you clould not conntroll
Think of the good times you had together and how he would want you to feel and remember him. When ever I think of someone dear I have lost I convince myself they are in a better place now. Hope this helps a little bit.
I had that same problem i got over it show you also well.
Hi im sorry to hear about this loss... Please try and remember the ';happy moments'; crying is good and there will be lots of it. but over time and lots of time you will cope better... just dont lock yourself in all the time thinking about it... You need to get out there and carry on to some extent.
Good luck :o)
I am not sure how close you were to your grandad. but it still hurts and is painful. Remember the fun times you had with him and cherish those memories. If the man was old and suffering keep in mind that he is at peace now and not hurting, he also lived a long life and it was his time to go. Allow yourself to feel sad and grieve. This is all part of the healing process.
I am sorry about your loss. You will get through this, and it will take time, it is a process that must be gone through.
allow yourself to greive over your lose! I am sorry about the lose of your love one. But if you feel like crying, screaming ect. allow yourself to do so. where it seems we go wrong is not allowing our feelings and emotions out. we all greive in our own ways and the time on greiving is different for everyone. but the more you deneigh yourself the chance to let your emotions out the harder it is on us. good luck .
I'm a student and I am looking to get a credit card, any advice?
Advice besides don't do it lol.
I want the best card for a student with the best rates and whatever else I need to look for in a credit card.I'm a student and I am looking to get a credit card, any advice?
ROFL @ the ppl saying 'Dont Do it'
WORST. ADVICE. EVER.
... and then they quote personal experience?
So their inability to control spending and lack of financial sense should reflect on you and your decisions? ROFL
Now for a serious answer: Look to open a small balance credit card. It is highly unlikely you will get a preferred rate because of your lack of credit history ... anything around 17-20% is pretty much standard and should be expected. With which bank? Ideally the bank you do your regular banking with ... why? Because they want to further their relationship with you in hopes you will continue to bring them business when you want a car loan, a student loan, or a mortgage when you graduate.
Another tip - start small. $500 - $1000 Cards are standard. Sometimes they want them to be secured ... meaning you front the money up front, lets say $500, and they hold on to it for a certain amt of time while you have the $500 CC ... its their security in case you default.
Oh ... and you have a job, right? I have to ask because if you don't have any confirmable income (and they will ask for proof of income from pay stubs) then what will you pay this off with?
And that is pretty much that ... good luck ... and just remember that this will be a test of your financial sense, and a NECESSARY ONE. Now is the perfect time to start building your credit (the PRIMARY REASON why you want to get a small balance credit card at an early age and pay it off clean).I'm a student and I am looking to get a credit card, any advice?
I got a credit card in college and I did just fine with it. Just remember to ONLY charge what you can afford and pay it off in full every month. Don't let yourself get into debt, no matter how tempting it may be to use that magical card for things you cannot afford.
As far as getting a good rate...good luck with that.
This is extremely rare, but I actually agree with the majority of the answers here. There is true hope after all. You see, some of us saw this countries economic problems coming years ago. Maybe we are finally seeing the light about credit cards.
Proverbs 22:7 ';The rich shall rule over the poor, and the borrower is as a servant to the lender.';
Honestly don't do it. Their to tempting. The young people is really where the credit cards company's make out. trust me don't get one you don't want to be in debt at a young age, but if you insist get one with a very low maximum and interest rate.
i have my credit card through my bank where i have my checking account
they usually have student credit cards with good limits, high enough but not too high, and its easy to pay off monthly with your checking account there too
Get one with a benefit you know you'll use. For example, I have a GM MasterCard for auto earnings and a JetBlue Amex for miles. Just make sure you don't go crazy buying stuff that you can't pay for.
Im a student, check out the student discover card. I just apllied. My advice, use it like you would a debit card. Spend what you have!
DON'T
Don't get one. You will end up regretting it. Trust me you will end up in debt.
But if you do want one anyway try Capital One.
Step away. Don't do it.
I know you asked for other advice, but that's it.
I want the best card for a student with the best rates and whatever else I need to look for in a credit card.I'm a student and I am looking to get a credit card, any advice?
ROFL @ the ppl saying 'Dont Do it'
WORST. ADVICE. EVER.
... and then they quote personal experience?
So their inability to control spending and lack of financial sense should reflect on you and your decisions? ROFL
Now for a serious answer: Look to open a small balance credit card. It is highly unlikely you will get a preferred rate because of your lack of credit history ... anything around 17-20% is pretty much standard and should be expected. With which bank? Ideally the bank you do your regular banking with ... why? Because they want to further their relationship with you in hopes you will continue to bring them business when you want a car loan, a student loan, or a mortgage when you graduate.
Another tip - start small. $500 - $1000 Cards are standard. Sometimes they want them to be secured ... meaning you front the money up front, lets say $500, and they hold on to it for a certain amt of time while you have the $500 CC ... its their security in case you default.
Oh ... and you have a job, right? I have to ask because if you don't have any confirmable income (and they will ask for proof of income from pay stubs) then what will you pay this off with?
And that is pretty much that ... good luck ... and just remember that this will be a test of your financial sense, and a NECESSARY ONE. Now is the perfect time to start building your credit (the PRIMARY REASON why you want to get a small balance credit card at an early age and pay it off clean).I'm a student and I am looking to get a credit card, any advice?
I got a credit card in college and I did just fine with it. Just remember to ONLY charge what you can afford and pay it off in full every month. Don't let yourself get into debt, no matter how tempting it may be to use that magical card for things you cannot afford.
As far as getting a good rate...good luck with that.
This is extremely rare, but I actually agree with the majority of the answers here. There is true hope after all. You see, some of us saw this countries economic problems coming years ago. Maybe we are finally seeing the light about credit cards.
Proverbs 22:7 ';The rich shall rule over the poor, and the borrower is as a servant to the lender.';
Honestly don't do it. Their to tempting. The young people is really where the credit cards company's make out. trust me don't get one you don't want to be in debt at a young age, but if you insist get one with a very low maximum and interest rate.
i have my credit card through my bank where i have my checking account
they usually have student credit cards with good limits, high enough but not too high, and its easy to pay off monthly with your checking account there too
Get one with a benefit you know you'll use. For example, I have a GM MasterCard for auto earnings and a JetBlue Amex for miles. Just make sure you don't go crazy buying stuff that you can't pay for.
Im a student, check out the student discover card. I just apllied. My advice, use it like you would a debit card. Spend what you have!
DON'T
Don't get one. You will end up regretting it. Trust me you will end up in debt.
But if you do want one anyway try Capital One.
Step away. Don't do it.
I know you asked for other advice, but that's it.
NEED ADVICE!! Which would be a better choice? 60K Sony job or Masters??
I got a job offer for 60K/yr as a logistics analyst in south NJ for Sony. I had been laid off 6 mos. back, but after looking for work for a while I kinda gave up and got myself admitted into the Masters in Accounting program at UT Austin. Now after 1 month into my new program one of the companies I had interviewed 40 days back finally offerre me 60K for a job. I really like Austin and and doing OK in the accounting program. I feel that if I was in a finance/ accounting to begin with I wouldnt have to wait for so long to get another job. SO what do you all think...should I continue in the accounting masters or take up the job? I have substantial scholarships for the MAcc program plus its Austin, so thats a big draw. On the other hand the salary is 60K. WHich would be better in the long run?
P.S. I was terminated from my last consulting job working for a tiny company after just 2 mos.NEED ADVICE!! Which would be a better choice? 60K Sony job or Masters??
If you feel that you could not be happy in South Jersey at any price, then stay in Austin.
If it is truly a question of job versus education, consider what other opportunities you may have at Sony. Is this a full time job or another consultant position? Will you have benefits (health insurance, pension, education, etc). Find out what types of classes they will pay for and how the reimbursement works. Will they pay for Master's level classes? Can the classes they pay for be in the accounting field? Is there a program in South Jersey or Philly that you might be able to transfer to? If the answers to these questions are ';yes'; you could have your cake and eat it, too. It may take you a while longer to get your Master's but you could get the degree AND get your work experience at the same time. Then move back to Austin in five years. That might actually be the best choice.
That said, I always think you should do something because you ENJOY doing it, not because you think it will be a good career choice. Are you a good logistics analyst? Do you like it? Are you finding accounting to be more enjoyable? If you don't want to work in logistics anymore, love accounting and Sony won't pay for education then your choice is really clear.
Hope this help!NEED ADVICE!! Which would be a better choice? 60K Sony job or Masters??
I would answer but I have no clue
hard to say without knowing ur background...like do u have a bachelor's in accounting or business?
60k itself is pretty good for just having a bachelor's, but in the long run it's not that much money. do u have the potential to climb the ladder relatively easily?
if u have no accounting background, then i would lean towards getting the masters. it'll be harder to go back to school later, and u've already started the program. i know in general that people can make much more than 60k with accounting backgrounds. also since it sounds like u have been having trouble getting a job...maybe additional education will help u in the future (in case u get laid off again).
ur question really comes down to how easily can u move up to make at least 80k with sony or utilize ur sony experience to get better jobs elsewhere. (how ';dead-end'; is that job?)
job.
It all depends about what u are aiming in life. If right now money and work experience is a priority don't miss it but if u wanna study and are sure you'd be employed and offered a higher pay then study. It's all up to u.All the best
P.S. I was terminated from my last consulting job working for a tiny company after just 2 mos.NEED ADVICE!! Which would be a better choice? 60K Sony job or Masters??
If you feel that you could not be happy in South Jersey at any price, then stay in Austin.
If it is truly a question of job versus education, consider what other opportunities you may have at Sony. Is this a full time job or another consultant position? Will you have benefits (health insurance, pension, education, etc). Find out what types of classes they will pay for and how the reimbursement works. Will they pay for Master's level classes? Can the classes they pay for be in the accounting field? Is there a program in South Jersey or Philly that you might be able to transfer to? If the answers to these questions are ';yes'; you could have your cake and eat it, too. It may take you a while longer to get your Master's but you could get the degree AND get your work experience at the same time. Then move back to Austin in five years. That might actually be the best choice.
That said, I always think you should do something because you ENJOY doing it, not because you think it will be a good career choice. Are you a good logistics analyst? Do you like it? Are you finding accounting to be more enjoyable? If you don't want to work in logistics anymore, love accounting and Sony won't pay for education then your choice is really clear.
Hope this help!NEED ADVICE!! Which would be a better choice? 60K Sony job or Masters??
I would answer but I have no clue
hard to say without knowing ur background...like do u have a bachelor's in accounting or business?
60k itself is pretty good for just having a bachelor's, but in the long run it's not that much money. do u have the potential to climb the ladder relatively easily?
if u have no accounting background, then i would lean towards getting the masters. it'll be harder to go back to school later, and u've already started the program. i know in general that people can make much more than 60k with accounting backgrounds. also since it sounds like u have been having trouble getting a job...maybe additional education will help u in the future (in case u get laid off again).
ur question really comes down to how easily can u move up to make at least 80k with sony or utilize ur sony experience to get better jobs elsewhere. (how ';dead-end'; is that job?)
job.
It all depends about what u are aiming in life. If right now money and work experience is a priority don't miss it but if u wanna study and are sure you'd be employed and offered a higher pay then study. It's all up to u.All the best
I need serious advice. Could I be pregnant?
Yesterday my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex, no condom. He came inside me and I am not on birth control. What are the chances of me being pregnant and when can I find out for sure that I am? I am supposed to be getting my period in about 5-7 days. I want to know ASAP. Please, serious advice needed.I need serious advice. Could I be pregnant?
Unprotected sex right during ovulation? Pretty high. Is that what you wanted? Kind of sounds like it.
You can't find out ASAP. It takes time for the hormones to build up that the test tests for. You will have to wait until you are late. If you're not late, you will know ASAP that you are not pregnant.I need serious advice. Could I be pregnant?
Yes, you might be pregnant.
But here's my advice (since you asked for it):
Get married before you make any babies.
Chances are 100%. You should take a test about a week after you miss your period. Seriously though, what kind of question is that. ';he came inside me and I am not on birth control'; what are the chances?? Be smarter next time. If you don't want to get pregnant. Sounds like you are another teen who wants to be pregnant which is idiotic. Good Luck
Only way you will find out is to take a test. Atleast wait till your period is late.
serious advice, you can be pregnant, you want a percentage, probably 70% chance your pregnant, just wait until you miss your period and 7 days after your supposed to miss your period, then take a test. That way your 2 weeks pregnant already, and thats when the pregnancy hormone becomes the highest.
That's a pretty risky time to be having unprotected sex. Right at the end of your ovulation really raises your chances as opposed to right after or during your period... but any time still presents the chance (even when you're on your period). Wait till your period comes (or you miss it) before you waste money on a test. You've got about a 50/50 chance in my opinion. Good luck!
PS: Pull out method DOES NOT WORK either. I've gotten pregnant that way due to pre-ejaculation, so even if your boyfriend hadn't ejaculated inside you, that pre-ejaculation has more than enough sperm in it to make you pregnant. And never listen to a guy tell you he doesn't pre-ejaculate. THEY ALL DO! It's the body's natural way of lubricating.
on aol they have a best time to concieve calculation, so you know based on your cycle when you are most likely to get pregnant. Good Luck whatever happens.... try this link...http://body.aol.com/condition-center/pregnancy?sem=1%26amp;ncid=AOLHTH00170000000005
go get the morning after pill. You are not pregnant yet and have time to rectify this mistake before you get pregnant.
Well people say that you could take a pregnancy test the day after and it could work... if you don't wanna be prego. then take the DAY AFTER pill and it'll kill any eggs that are fertilized inside of you... its different then abortion because its not even close to be devolpoed... but if you wanna be prego. then good luck!! i wish you the best!! =]
ha-ha-ha
magic 8-ball says ~~~%26gt; yes
hey BTW what brand of condom's do use?
LOOSER~!
Let me do the math for you~~~%26gt;
(30 secs of joy) X (life time of blaming the system)
equals~~~%26gt; ANOTHER SINGLE MOTHER ON THE SYSTEM FOR THE NEXT 18 PLUS YEARS...
THank GOD we have people like you...
Can you say ~~~%26gt; paper or plastic....
or
would you like fries with that combo?
Of course you could be pregnant, you had unprotected sex!!!
A good indication would be missing your upcoming period. There is no test you can take at this time.
I know I sound snippy, but why bother asking a question like this? You already know the answer. I can't reassure you, because you took the chance and now you may be pregnant. Who knows? I am trying to be firm and realistic with you, and AM giving you ';serious advice'; from my heart. Unless you are ready to be a mother, use birth control EVERY time. There is no exceuse to be sc*ewing and not be on BC unless you are ready for parenthood. BC is cheap or free and easy to obtain.
I am sorry if this isn't want you want to hear, but anyone reassuring you is gambling as much as you are.
The chance is higher but not definite. It still is a lot of work for the sperm to get to the egg and then to actually fertilize the egg. Many die along the way and get lost etc. If you don't want to be pregnant I suggest using a condom from now on and Birth control as well and going and getting a Day After Pill. You can take it something like 48 hours after. If you do go to a Planned Parenthood or your Dr. ASAP... Either way good luck :)
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-鈥?/a>
You will know in about 5-7 days!
You usually get pregnent durring ovulation which is usually in the middle of your cycle. You can go to your doctors office and get a blood test which usualy can tell right awayor you can wait 5 days after your missed period to take a at home test. Either way good luck girlly!
Sea Dog is hitting it right on the mark.. if I were you id start learning how to change diapers and check ebay for some old raffie tapes.. cus for the next couple of years you are going to be raising another future gansta! by the way I would suggest buying a guitar for the kid and make him practice 12 hrs a day then maybe he'll tag up with a rock band and buy you that million dollar house you've always dreamed about.
50 50
but yahoo isnt a pregnancy test go buy one
the chances of you being pregnant are significantly high. take a pregnancy test if you are late and own oup to the situation. good luck.
wow maybe you should know a person before you start to assume things. I am a military wife, hubby just got back from Iraq and will be going back in a year. I have been running on NO sleep taking care of my babies.
I am not a trailer trash gal, sorry. My husband I am had babies while married. I am not stupid, I know my chances of getting pregnant or less than yours because we used BC. If you are not using BC and letting you B ';come'; in you, yeah you have a high risk of getting ';knocked up'; little girl!!!!!!
there is a big chance that you are pregnant but then again a big chance you are not... if you get a first response pregnancy test it will tell you up to 5 days before your missed period... but i conceived April 15 i didn't know but i thought i could be pregnant after the 15 my period was last i took and test an it said i wasn't and then i got my period... but i was pregnant. i got my period cause i got pregnant really close to that time... it was the end of may before i found out... good luck
Unprotected sex right during ovulation? Pretty high. Is that what you wanted? Kind of sounds like it.
You can't find out ASAP. It takes time for the hormones to build up that the test tests for. You will have to wait until you are late. If you're not late, you will know ASAP that you are not pregnant.I need serious advice. Could I be pregnant?
Yes, you might be pregnant.
But here's my advice (since you asked for it):
Get married before you make any babies.
Chances are 100%. You should take a test about a week after you miss your period. Seriously though, what kind of question is that. ';he came inside me and I am not on birth control'; what are the chances?? Be smarter next time. If you don't want to get pregnant. Sounds like you are another teen who wants to be pregnant which is idiotic. Good Luck
Only way you will find out is to take a test. Atleast wait till your period is late.
serious advice, you can be pregnant, you want a percentage, probably 70% chance your pregnant, just wait until you miss your period and 7 days after your supposed to miss your period, then take a test. That way your 2 weeks pregnant already, and thats when the pregnancy hormone becomes the highest.
That's a pretty risky time to be having unprotected sex. Right at the end of your ovulation really raises your chances as opposed to right after or during your period... but any time still presents the chance (even when you're on your period). Wait till your period comes (or you miss it) before you waste money on a test. You've got about a 50/50 chance in my opinion. Good luck!
PS: Pull out method DOES NOT WORK either. I've gotten pregnant that way due to pre-ejaculation, so even if your boyfriend hadn't ejaculated inside you, that pre-ejaculation has more than enough sperm in it to make you pregnant. And never listen to a guy tell you he doesn't pre-ejaculate. THEY ALL DO! It's the body's natural way of lubricating.
on aol they have a best time to concieve calculation, so you know based on your cycle when you are most likely to get pregnant. Good Luck whatever happens.... try this link...http://body.aol.com/condition-center/pregnancy?sem=1%26amp;ncid=AOLHTH00170000000005
go get the morning after pill. You are not pregnant yet and have time to rectify this mistake before you get pregnant.
Well people say that you could take a pregnancy test the day after and it could work... if you don't wanna be prego. then take the DAY AFTER pill and it'll kill any eggs that are fertilized inside of you... its different then abortion because its not even close to be devolpoed... but if you wanna be prego. then good luck!! i wish you the best!! =]
ha-ha-ha
magic 8-ball says ~~~%26gt; yes
hey BTW what brand of condom's do use?
LOOSER~!
Let me do the math for you~~~%26gt;
(30 secs of joy) X (life time of blaming the system)
equals~~~%26gt; ANOTHER SINGLE MOTHER ON THE SYSTEM FOR THE NEXT 18 PLUS YEARS...
THank GOD we have people like you...
Can you say ~~~%26gt; paper or plastic....
or
would you like fries with that combo?
Of course you could be pregnant, you had unprotected sex!!!
A good indication would be missing your upcoming period. There is no test you can take at this time.
I know I sound snippy, but why bother asking a question like this? You already know the answer. I can't reassure you, because you took the chance and now you may be pregnant. Who knows? I am trying to be firm and realistic with you, and AM giving you ';serious advice'; from my heart. Unless you are ready to be a mother, use birth control EVERY time. There is no exceuse to be sc*ewing and not be on BC unless you are ready for parenthood. BC is cheap or free and easy to obtain.
I am sorry if this isn't want you want to hear, but anyone reassuring you is gambling as much as you are.
The chance is higher but not definite. It still is a lot of work for the sperm to get to the egg and then to actually fertilize the egg. Many die along the way and get lost etc. If you don't want to be pregnant I suggest using a condom from now on and Birth control as well and going and getting a Day After Pill. You can take it something like 48 hours after. If you do go to a Planned Parenthood or your Dr. ASAP... Either way good luck :)
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-鈥?/a>
You will know in about 5-7 days!
You usually get pregnent durring ovulation which is usually in the middle of your cycle. You can go to your doctors office and get a blood test which usualy can tell right awayor you can wait 5 days after your missed period to take a at home test. Either way good luck girlly!
Sea Dog is hitting it right on the mark.. if I were you id start learning how to change diapers and check ebay for some old raffie tapes.. cus for the next couple of years you are going to be raising another future gansta! by the way I would suggest buying a guitar for the kid and make him practice 12 hrs a day then maybe he'll tag up with a rock band and buy you that million dollar house you've always dreamed about.
50 50
but yahoo isnt a pregnancy test go buy one
the chances of you being pregnant are significantly high. take a pregnancy test if you are late and own oup to the situation. good luck.
wow maybe you should know a person before you start to assume things. I am a military wife, hubby just got back from Iraq and will be going back in a year. I have been running on NO sleep taking care of my babies.
I am not a trailer trash gal, sorry. My husband I am had babies while married. I am not stupid, I know my chances of getting pregnant or less than yours because we used BC. If you are not using BC and letting you B ';come'; in you, yeah you have a high risk of getting ';knocked up'; little girl!!!!!!
there is a big chance that you are pregnant but then again a big chance you are not... if you get a first response pregnancy test it will tell you up to 5 days before your missed period... but i conceived April 15 i didn't know but i thought i could be pregnant after the 15 my period was last i took and test an it said i wasn't and then i got my period... but i was pregnant. i got my period cause i got pregnant really close to that time... it was the end of may before i found out... good luck
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